I've been hearing about a similar instance for two days now, just from the woman's perspective.
My coworker/friend who is a lady and recently got online dating. She is into fitness, clean eating and healthy lifestyle. Very social and I would say has all the wants needs of many typical, educated, independent women. What I hear her say the most is about what she's looking for communications/responses from guys online. Basically, he have a good head on his shoulder. She has expressed in the past she doesn't want a huge mass monster, however, when I show her different pics of bodybuilders/physique guys, she does like built guys. Just thinks Phil Heath in competition shape is too much. Catch my drift here.
Guess what, the first guy that messages her and she's been talking to is into weightlifting and fitness. She showed me a pic and he looks pretty built however, not freakishly huge by any means. She showed a pic to her bestfriend and she said he was Huge, and in a good way.
So, here's what she's said the last two days, cause ofcourse now, he wants to meet. She's told me that she's not sure, he seems big and really into fitness and she feels nervous about meeting him. He makes her feel insecure about herself.
Ofcourse, I've been telling her come on, give him props, he's athletic and how she's said how cool he seems, give him a chance and atleast meet him.
Does this sound familiar?
My coworker/friend who is a lady and recently got online dating. She is into fitness, clean eating and healthy lifestyle. Very social and I would say has all the wants needs of many typical, educated, independent women. What I hear her say the most is about what she's looking for communications/responses from guys online. Basically, he have a good head on his shoulder. She has expressed in the past she doesn't want a huge mass monster, however, when I show her different pics of bodybuilders/physique guys, she does like built guys. Just thinks Phil Heath in competition shape is too much. Catch my drift here.
Guess what, the first guy that messages her and she's been talking to is into weightlifting and fitness. She showed me a pic and he looks pretty built however, not freakishly huge by any means. She showed a pic to her bestfriend and she said he was Huge, and in a good way.
So, here's what she's said the last two days, cause ofcourse now, he wants to meet. She's told me that she's not sure, he seems big and really into fitness and she feels nervous about meeting him. He makes her feel insecure about herself.
Ofcourse, I've been telling her come on, give him props, he's athletic and how she's said how cool he seems, give him a chance and atleast meet him.
Does this sound familiar?