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First off, I want to say its not like me to envolve others in my personal life. However, there comes a point where it starts to spill over into other things... A little background info. Ive been married six years and have a two year old and an eight month old. Heres my situation. Ive been military for a few years now. I recently deployed overseas. This is when everything started. My wife had been talking to a, "old friend". This old friend...which ive never met, stayed at my house. Eventually I found out because my neighbor is a snoop. I confronted the ball and chain and got the story. At that point I was pretty fed up.After, I returned to the states some time later, I found out this piece of shit stayed at my house 3 days(originally I was told one day. He was just passing through the state. He was also a military guy). She assured me she didnt cheat. I yanked and pulled at her for a week daily for the truth. I believe she did cheat but she doesnt have the courage to tell me. To cut this down a little. I gave her another chance and burried the hatchet.
Situation #2
This shit put me on a whole new level. Wifes gets a new part time job at a restaurant close to the house. She Tells me about a guy at work and how hes a manager at a store. Of course I naturally listen and sound interested. I brush it off... She continues to talk about him more and more. Yesterday she goes out for a, "girls night". She doesnt txt or call but i figure its a, "girls night"...so whatever. I start thinking about the guy and frantically check her phone... shes passed out on the bed drunk. I was thinking, I wonder if shes still txting that dude? I check her phone, and to my suprise shes txting that fucking puke. I say nothing today and go to work. Im at work boiling all day trying to secure my thoughts of rage. I try to analyze the situation on my way home. When I walk in the house she goes to the bathroom without her phone...the phone was chilling right in front of me. I grab it and open the convo to see more txts, like good morning. If Im lucky will you call me this morning? When will you come see me. You should send me pics. There wasnt any horrible shit because I caught it before it became worse. Immediately she says oh my girlfriend said," Rick", has a thing for me. She starts staring at me like I hopefully saw nothing on her phone. I could tell she was nervous. I looked at her and said, "Yeah!! Look at those fucking txts, do I look like an idiot?" Now, alot of my military experience and general nose for bullshit tells me when things arent right, you just know....I guess really im at a boiling point. I have a new house, car, two kids, great family, wife is smoking....literally everything a person could want. I came from nothing so to me I dont give a fuck about anything but my daughters....Im on a rant so I apologize, but shes sleeping next to me and all I can think about is a divorce. Im fed up. Once a liar and cheater, always a liar and cheater. Whats worse is her behavior is driving me away, and on the opposite side of the spectrum I have hot ass women throwing themselves at me at work. Im at fault here too because I often think about other women...however I dont act on it. Someone with some experience chime in. Im out of solutions.
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Situation #2
This shit put me on a whole new level. Wifes gets a new part time job at a restaurant close to the house. She Tells me about a guy at work and how hes a manager at a store. Of course I naturally listen and sound interested. I brush it off... She continues to talk about him more and more. Yesterday she goes out for a, "girls night". She doesnt txt or call but i figure its a, "girls night"...so whatever. I start thinking about the guy and frantically check her phone... shes passed out on the bed drunk. I was thinking, I wonder if shes still txting that dude? I check her phone, and to my suprise shes txting that fucking puke. I say nothing today and go to work. Im at work boiling all day trying to secure my thoughts of rage. I try to analyze the situation on my way home. When I walk in the house she goes to the bathroom without her phone...the phone was chilling right in front of me. I grab it and open the convo to see more txts, like good morning. If Im lucky will you call me this morning? When will you come see me. You should send me pics. There wasnt any horrible shit because I caught it before it became worse. Immediately she says oh my girlfriend said," Rick", has a thing for me. She starts staring at me like I hopefully saw nothing on her phone. I could tell she was nervous. I looked at her and said, "Yeah!! Look at those fucking txts, do I look like an idiot?" Now, alot of my military experience and general nose for bullshit tells me when things arent right, you just know....I guess really im at a boiling point. I have a new house, car, two kids, great family, wife is smoking....literally everything a person could want. I came from nothing so to me I dont give a fuck about anything but my daughters....Im on a rant so I apologize, but shes sleeping next to me and all I can think about is a divorce. Im fed up. Once a liar and cheater, always a liar and cheater. Whats worse is her behavior is driving me away, and on the opposite side of the spectrum I have hot ass women throwing themselves at me at work. Im at fault here too because I often think about other women...however I dont act on it. Someone with some experience chime in. Im out of solutions.
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