My Tinder experience

[maldorf]

Would anyone here date a lady that had cancer? I have a feeling that a lot of women would drop me like a hot potato if they were told I have heart failure.

 

[PYGMY]

I think I'd definitely try to use some apps if I was looking. It's got to dramatically speed up the process of meeting ladies. At 51 years old and having heart failure, I'd be in a hurry!

Haha. It definitely does speed up the process and make it whole lot easier.

Don’t get me wrong, meeting someone organically in real life is great. I applaud people that are able to find someone that way in this day age.

And that’s not to say that just because you’re on a dating app that there isn’t still the possibility of meeting someone at the grocery store.

But most people as they get older are just so busy with life that it gets harder and harder to meet someone face to face. You just don’t really have the time to invest.

That’s where apps come in and I think that for those of us getting up there in age it’s a big part of why we turn to them.

 

[Thappy]

Something else I’m noticing is that women want to meet a lot sooner. I was on Tinder years ago and it seemed like the thing was to talk to someone for a week or two and then meet up for a date. Now it’s like rapid fire dating. Just tonight for instance, I started talking to two different girls, within about 30 minutes of talking they both asked me if I wanted to meet for a drink TONIGHT.

Did you smash the back out of both of them? love this stuff hahha

 

[PYGMY]

Did you smash the back out of both of them? love this stuff hahha

Fuck no lol. You gotta make a reservation for this dick. You can’t be just walking in off the street and expect to get a table.

 

[pimpman]

Actually she did. When her older sis spilled the beans on her, one of my boys went an filed a police report. Cause he got married after her, now his wife had to get tested, as well as his newborn son. It was a big mess for anyone involved with her. She got put away, but only for 3 months. Not long enough if you ask me, but our judiciary system isn’t quite known to hold shitty people accountable.

Cage

What a shame

 

[maldorf]

Yea she is right she can only spread it while she has an outbreak. But I'm with you hell no I'm not taking any chances .I couldn't even enjoy it just thinking she has it lol

I rather hit porn hub lol

Apparently it can be spread even when there isn't an outbreak, but it's not very common. Oral herpes can even be spread to someone's genitals if oral sex is performed.

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[pimpman]

Apparently it can be spread even when there isn't an outbreak, but it's not very common. Oral herpes can even be spread to someone's genitals if oral sex is performed.

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Oh yea if you have an outbreak on your lip and you give oral you will definitely transfer it to her genital

 

[cage99]

Fuck no lol. You gotta make a reservation for this dick. You can’t be just walking in off the street and expect to get a table.

Ha, thats f’n priceless! I gotta use that line! Phenomenal!!

Cage

 

[aphextwin]

How about the woman on Tinder who have in their bios one of the following: no hook ups, dating with a purpose, etc.

 

[TrippplePPP]

Would anyone here date a lady that had cancer? I have a feeling that a lot of women would drop me like a hot potato if they were told I have heart failure.

I have seen bio's of women who admit to hearing loss and other medical issues. And this is on tinder and FB dating. Some people are really honest as they want an honest result out of this. If you mentioned you had a health issue it shows you are honest and can weed out people looking for something else. So it happens.

My experience is dating apps don't work for me. I am successful, house, cars, savings accounts and great friends and family network, 6'1" with athletic body and my mom tells me I'm handsome (last part was a joke, but I am average looking and never had hard time finding dates in person). I am near 40 now and meet mostly girls at work. But I never get replies online despite the above. So I agree with the dudes who mention your profile must be like a business and advertise your product better than the rest even though you may have the same product. And honestly the only women who reach out to me are people who would never actually talk to you in real life, like women who don't have a chance in reality but online allows them to reach out to you.

 

[PYGMY]

How about the woman on Tinder who have in their bios one of the following: no hook ups, dating with a purpose, etc.

I’ve banged a couple of them on the first date too.

 

[LK3]

Would anyone here date a lady that had cancer? I have a feeling that a lot of women would drop me like a hot potato if they were told I have heart failure.

lol
like fight club?
yeah.. id do it. lol

 

[maldorf]

lol
like fight club?
yeah.. id do it. lol

Well, I guess I should restate it as " would you pursue a true relationship with a lady who has terminal cancer". It would surely make one pause.

 

[aphextwin]

I’ve banged a couple of them on the first date too.

Same. They would even tell me ahead of time they didn’t do that….lol. Next thing you know I’m blowing their back out

 

[aphextwin]

I’ve had more hook ups when I was using Match. It was like fishing with dynamite

 

[aphextwin]

Well, I guess I should restate it as " would you pursue a true relationship with a lady who has terminal cancer". It would surely make one pause.

I wouldn’t

 

[PYGMY]

Same. They would even tell me ahead of time they didn’t do that….lol. Next thing you know I’m blowing their back out

You know, come to think of it… if I’m remembering right, I think every single one night stand or first date hook up I’ve had from that site was with a woman that had “No Hook ups” or something similar in her profile lol.

 

[Muay Thai]

Would anyone here date a lady that had cancer? I have a feeling that a lot of women would drop me like a hot potato if they were told I have heart failure.

the love of my life had fibromyalgia and endometreosis. she was britle but still competed npc bikini in dallas. she was a gem. best gf ive ever had! id do it again in a heart beat. you are a catch homey you just need to find someone MATURE and aware of health not some idiot who will run for the hills. my current girlfriend thinks im haphazard because I have spinabifida and am in pain alot, old untreated injuries from brawls and even gym that now scream sometimes lol

I havent worked out in 2 weeks due to moving and vehicle in shop but i have kept pretty good size on just hrt dose test and leaned out a lot just eating at home. befoer that i was eating fast food efveryday for 2 weeks straight, 2x per day and leaning on insulin to keep me in shape which worked but i felt shitty

 

[goback2013]

I’ve banged a couple of them on the first date too.

yeah... or the 'no premarital sex' types... the first ones to pull their panties to the side.

 

[TrippplePPP]

Well, I guess I should restate it as " would you pursue a true relationship with a lady who has terminal cancer". It would surely make one pause.

Firstly, does she drive a Porsche like you? If so then yes. All joking aside, I have seen some pretty sick people actually meet in the waiting room for the doctor I was working for and one couple actually got married. The couple had similar issues and their medical issues were probably something to bond over.

Secondly, I seem tons of people at work and see their medical profile. Trust me, there is someone out there for everyone. I constantly see the most ridiculous people with significant others and it sometimes blows me away.