Of course when i met my wife her looks where are what attracted me to her.
At the age of 19 when i met her, she won TEEN KY beauty pageant.Then i found out how supportive she was and caring. She has went through 10 years of competing in powerlifting ,9 years of wrestling and of course the bodybuilding lifestyle .Cooking and helping prepare my meals taking care of our kids etc.
She competes in 1 figure contest a year for the past 12 years and hell at over 40 won the open class .Everybody tells me she is the prettiest girl especially cause she doesn't ever wear make-up from day to day.
It will be 24 years of marriage June 8th 2015 and her looks isn't her strong points ,its her love she shows and gives her family and friends .One drawback she likes to lend my mother inlaw money she knows won't ever get payed back(sorry had to throw a bad point about her)
Couldn't imagine life without her ,yes she has problems but she could need me to do everything for her from now to death do us part and i still would come out ahead.
Now to the OP if she makes you happy then congrats brother,it only should matter to her and yourself.
Not taking up for anybody but guys on here give their opinions,because it is a discussion bodybuilding forum .They will tell you things you like and some will tell you what you don't care to hear.
One thing i can say about the members of PM if a tragedy happens all come together to offer assistance, that is where you see PM at their finest ! .