O/T: Asking girls out that work at the gym

[epoxy]

Just wanted to see if anyone's had success ever asking girls out that WORK at the gym - I've gone on a date or two with girls I met that WORK OUT at the gym but it seems a little awkward when it's an employee who's there every day. Is this a NO-NO? Or fuck it just go for it kinda situation.

This also could apply to retail or wherever, asking someone out at their workplace - especially if you'd likely never see them outside of work.

 

[rmtt]

I think it would be no issue in that situation....as you could always change gyms if she became a "stalker"!

However under no circumstance would I ever date anyone that I worked with on a daily basis. Happened once and when it went south....it was pretty bad.

 

[epoxy]

I think it would be no issue in that situation....as you could always change gyms if she became a "stalker"!

However under no circumstance would I ever date anyone that I worked with on a daily basis. Happened once and when it went south....it was pretty bad.

No I definitely wouldn't even consider it if I worked there myself, but I do obviously GO THERE every day.

 

[cm]

i think this falls into the category of not shitting where you eat
she works there, and you love going there

if things dont materialize, or turn ugly, you may be looking for a new gym, whether you like it or not

 

[PitbullTank]

WTF go get her! YOU ARE THE MAN, if you fucking penetrate her... why in the world would you have to leave gym or feel uncomfortable if it doesnt work out???? You feel embarrassed or pressured ?! id make her ass leave somehow before i ever changed my routine for some chick i just met... plus, if you fuck her good, maybe she will tell all the other girls in the gym that your a stud and get more dates hahahahaha :headbang:

 

[little slice]

post a pic of your face and body




then we will be able to advise you.

 

[epoxy]

WTF go get her! YOU ARE THE MAN, if you fucking penetrate her... why in the world would you have to leave gym or feel uncomfortable if it doesnt work out???? You feel embarrassed or pressured as the man?! id make her ass leave somehow before i ever changed my routine for some chick i just met... plus, if you fuck her good, maybe she will tell all the other girls in the gym that your a stud and get more dates hahahahaha :headbang:

Oh I'm not worried about it being awkward for me. I'm just thinking from her perspective, guys trying to pick you up at your workplace, is it taboo or not

 

[PitbullTank]

Oh I'm not worried about it being awkward for me. I'm just thinking from her perspective, guys trying to pick you up at your workplace, is it taboo or not

well her perspective if she thinks you are hot will be it is FLATTERING, if she isn't attracted she will think your some weird stalker lmao... you thinking way too much... 1st time you thought about her shoulda walked right up and asked her what her favorite pornhub category is and cut to the chase

 

[epoxy]

well her perspective if she thinks you are hot will be it is FLATTERING, if she isn't attracted she will think your some weird stalker lmao... you thinking way too much... 1st time you thought about her shoulda walked right up and asked her what her favorite pornhub category is and cut to the chase

Lol my style is more like over time build up. She started working there. We chatted shortly, I introduced myself, we chat a little every day. She's super shy I can tell, not the kind of girl who would be like begging me to ask for her number.

 

[chinaboy]

Dont do it. Everytime you go to the gym it will be a distraction.

 

[ALLEX]

It's fine if she likes you. And you should know. Girls make it pretty damn obvious when they do.

If you don't know or not sure, she doesn't. Then don't.

 

[thethinker48]

post a pic of your face and body




then we will be able to advise you.

This really!!

Your actions can go from "cute", "charming", and "captivating" to creepy, dangerous, and rapey depending on your attractiveness lol

Never take girl advice from your good looking friend...it's the ugly duckling who knows what he's talking about...like Little Slice (jk...srs...no bully)

 

[little slice]

This really!!

Your actions can go from "cute", "charming", and "captivating" to creepy, dangerous, and rapey depending on your attractiveness lol

Never take girl advice from your good looking friend...it's the ugly duckling who knows what he's talking about...like Little Slice (jk...srs...no bully)

y bully?



I asked a gym desk girl out back when I was 21..


well, more like I told her to go out with me.. lol.


I took her out a couple times, and we ended back up at her house around 1:30am


it was then that I realized that she was 17, and the interaction became strictly platonic

 

[ALLEX]

it was then that I realized that she was 17, and the interaction became strictly platonic.

What's age of consent in your neck of the woods?

 

[cm]

WTF go get her! YOU ARE THE MAN, if you fucking penetrate her... why in the world would you have to leave gym or feel uncomfortable if it doesnt work out???? You feel embarrassed or pressured ?! id make her ass leave somehow before i ever changed my routine for some chick i just met... plus, if you fuck her good, maybe she will tell all the other girls in the gym that your a stud and get more dates hahahahaha :headbang:

or... she doesnt want you around anymore, and her boss takes her side 100 out of 100 times and your out on your ass being the MAN without a gym

think about it

gym is more important then a temporary piece of ass

 

[thethinker48]

What's age of consent in your neck of the woods?

Yup, that's the response I expected from Allex lol

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[little slice]

What's age of consent in your neck of the woods?

18

 

[ALLEX]

Yup, that's the response I expected from Allex lol

What does that even mean?

A 17 year old is a child? 21 yo guys date 17 yo girls every day around the world.

AFAIK, 16 is the age of consent of most states in the US, right?

 

[little slice]

AFAIK, 16 is the age of consent of most states in the US, right?

no

 

[Gunsmith]

I'm so glad I'm married and faithful

I can't imagine how difficult it is to date the older you get and gain more perspective and morals