You said it as well as it can be said. It's f*cking tragic and I see it every day it seems. What we CAN do as true men is put more emphasis on them TO do something and not just sexually take advantage of them. Many of the times they are just trying to make someone happy and they give their bodies (and souls) away to do just that. So men have to take some responsibility for this problem as well. I love that you incorporated identity into your post. Many women (and men of course) live a long time without ANY real sense of their own identity. But like I said, as men, we have to take responsibility too. Otherwise, eventually what you'll have is a bunch of pretty hate machines and no meaningful relationships at all. Thanks for a great post.
The part where you mentioned "soul" interested me because that is what make sex something not to play with and there is something deep down going with this which few people know.....like the dark underworld, it is there....
The identity thing....man it pisses me off when you are married and then tells you she needs to discover her identity.....and that because they use sex to please and to keep, like you said. So, basically, other men's dicks caused me problems. Now I and she hate men for the same reason, LOL!
We shared thoughs about something simillar previously and I have seen that girls do differ. Take pics for instance. I was on mxit where bad ass girls and guys chat and they throw up getting pics of a penis and delete you. Not that I did it because I am not into it. But no man deletes a woman for sending naked pics…But I will keep on with my study since I am divorced after all….