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ok fellas.... here's the situation.
i am very eager to be my own boss again, as I have made a few threads about it. it was supposed to be up by at least the end of august at the lastest.
last night i drove my fiance and daughter over to "PopPop"s house. (fiance's dad, not mine). my fiance had to get suttin from her mother.
anyway me and my little girl raced and I won, or maybe she did.... so we get inside and there's his fat ass drinking E&J, the guy is a total drunk and he's a Superasshole when he's drunk, (normally he's just a regular asshole). anyway, our lil girl was trying to say suttin to him, next thing i know he's screaming at her like she's a fuckin two dollar whore who just infected him with hiv.
so i opened my mouth...needless to say...well things....alot of shit was said by both of us....thats when my girl grabbed me and told me to go outside to our truck, so fine, i got our lil girl and we went outside....
there i was sitting in the seat calming down....my lady comes out and says "he wants his money back and he doesn't want you over here anymore because of you "disrespecting" him in his house" (that was his words)
(the money in question was a couple grand we borrowed for the business...not alot, just a couple..i already gave it back btw)
and he was running his mouth outside saying shit like "i dont care if you're on steroids, i'll kick the shit outta you...blah blah blah" all the ramblings of a drunk.
he's old, fat and drunk. not trying to sound like an internet toughguy, but i woulda beat his ass.
now here's the problem...my brother(biz partner) is bitching cuz even tho it wasn't much money...it was still a couple grand we coulda used, he's saying i shoulda bit my tongue and walked out with my daughter.
i can't let this go for some reason, i always show people respect, esp. in their house, BUT him talking to a 4 yr old the way he did was totally uncalled for..oh and he said he was messin with her...WTF ever, you don't "mess" with a 4 yr old by talking to her like the way he did.
it's to late to turn back the clock and have done things differently, what i am saying is, did i f*&k up? or did i do what any father woulda done?
now some people are saying i need to go to anger management classes, i don't feel i am unable to control my temper, but this is the second time i have lost it concerning my daughter, a few weeks ago, we were at the local mall, and some black guys were acting like assholes, and our daughter came out of the store with her mom and black guy almost fell on top of her cuz he was clowning around...they went walking and the one said "the lil chinky girl got in my way"
my fiance is filipino and hawaiian, and our daughter tends to take her characteristics....and to be honest when i heard them call her a chink....well...let's just saying some shit happened at the mall and security was called. again, i'm not trying to sound like some tough internet guy, heck..i think i'm one of the nicest guys you'll ever meet...i try to help people out, (which i have done for her family numerous times btw) and i try to be an honest fella, if you treat me with respect i have no problem with showing you the EXACT same respect back.
my question is, am I in the wrong in either situation? and do you think I am "outta control" as someone in her family said.
JW
sorry for the post being so long btw.
i am very eager to be my own boss again, as I have made a few threads about it. it was supposed to be up by at least the end of august at the lastest.
last night i drove my fiance and daughter over to "PopPop"s house. (fiance's dad, not mine). my fiance had to get suttin from her mother.
anyway me and my little girl raced and I won, or maybe she did.... so we get inside and there's his fat ass drinking E&J, the guy is a total drunk and he's a Superasshole when he's drunk, (normally he's just a regular asshole). anyway, our lil girl was trying to say suttin to him, next thing i know he's screaming at her like she's a fuckin two dollar whore who just infected him with hiv.
so i opened my mouth...needless to say...well things....alot of shit was said by both of us....thats when my girl grabbed me and told me to go outside to our truck, so fine, i got our lil girl and we went outside....
there i was sitting in the seat calming down....my lady comes out and says "he wants his money back and he doesn't want you over here anymore because of you "disrespecting" him in his house" (that was his words)
(the money in question was a couple grand we borrowed for the business...not alot, just a couple..i already gave it back btw)
and he was running his mouth outside saying shit like "i dont care if you're on steroids, i'll kick the shit outta you...blah blah blah" all the ramblings of a drunk.
he's old, fat and drunk. not trying to sound like an internet toughguy, but i woulda beat his ass.
now here's the problem...my brother(biz partner) is bitching cuz even tho it wasn't much money...it was still a couple grand we coulda used, he's saying i shoulda bit my tongue and walked out with my daughter.
i can't let this go for some reason, i always show people respect, esp. in their house, BUT him talking to a 4 yr old the way he did was totally uncalled for..oh and he said he was messin with her...WTF ever, you don't "mess" with a 4 yr old by talking to her like the way he did.
it's to late to turn back the clock and have done things differently, what i am saying is, did i f*&k up? or did i do what any father woulda done?
now some people are saying i need to go to anger management classes, i don't feel i am unable to control my temper, but this is the second time i have lost it concerning my daughter, a few weeks ago, we were at the local mall, and some black guys were acting like assholes, and our daughter came out of the store with her mom and black guy almost fell on top of her cuz he was clowning around...they went walking and the one said "the lil chinky girl got in my way"
my fiance is filipino and hawaiian, and our daughter tends to take her characteristics....and to be honest when i heard them call her a chink....well...let's just saying some shit happened at the mall and security was called. again, i'm not trying to sound like some tough internet guy, heck..i think i'm one of the nicest guys you'll ever meet...i try to help people out, (which i have done for her family numerous times btw) and i try to be an honest fella, if you treat me with respect i have no problem with showing you the EXACT same respect back.
my question is, am I in the wrong in either situation? and do you think I am "outta control" as someone in her family said.
JW
sorry for the post being so long btw.