Opinions need-JT said something stupid!

[lynx]

And no not to me, he says I'm chubby all the time now. I'm use to him at this point.

Ok here's the scoop: There is this person that works at the local civic center where JT and I lift. They have long red hair and their sex is a little...well questionable. Both of us couldn't figure it out and have just not said anything one way or another. UNTIL one day this person was visiting with us while we did abs and JT said something about this person’s hair and how they are pretty, don't change a thing, blah, blah, blah! This person looked a little uncomfortable and come to find out that it's a dude! We thought that it was a girl for a LONG time and that she was just butch! JT thought he was paying "her" a compliment which he does frequently to people. JT forgot about calling this guy pretty until I told him this morning. (We just found out yesterday afternoon that it was a guy.) We both were laughing our asses off! I told him, "Now don't go and say hey man I thought you were a girl!" He said that he was going to do just that! We're going to lift tonight and "Josh" might be there working. I think that he should just let lying dogs lay. He wants to set things straight. This kid is still in high school and I think that something like what he wants to say will be crushing to this poor kid. What do you guys think:
- Yes, tell him he thought he was an ugly girl and that his sex is a bit ambiguous?
- No, leave it alone. Just treat him like a guy from now on.

AND don't be siding with JT just because he's your "bro" either!

 

[Kaiser]

I vote JT dyes his hair red to show that his hair is just as pretty.

 

[Dangkolo]

oooops!

I would just say I'm sorry I thought you were a guy. But my wife says that I am a little to blunt at times. (lol) Oh well, honest mistake.

 

[rAJJIN]

Well JT is Right.... He needs to set things "straight"
Maybe itll go get a haircut.

We have this real tall guy I mean damn near 7' but clumsy and awkward.
He would walk around all hunchback trying to lower himself down to the other guys level..... Well A few of the guys starting Giving him a hard time and Joking around for Him to Stand Up and Quite with the hunchback, Makes him look more awkward then he already is..... sure enough it didnt take long
an he worked that hunch out of his back and now is closer to normal.

I think it may hurt his feeling at first if "he is a sensative fella" But it Might help him in life for someone to be honest
I mean no normal man wants to walk around being mistaken for a chick do they? Unless he is a weirdo, then I wouldnt bother with him and Im on your side Lynx

 

[Koevoet]

Yes, tell him he thought he was an ugly girl and that his sex is a bit ambiguous?

Damn right tell him, he may not be happy hearing it, but at least he will know. If it was me, I would want to fucking know that I look like an ugly chick. How you tell him though will be key.

I remember when I was a snot-nosed kid working out at my local gym, one of the older guys came up to me an told me that I need to brush my hair cause I looked like an abo and all the girls were laughing at me. It hurt my feelings a little sure, but I did start taking a lot more pride in my appearance and was glad he told me.

 

[iron fist]

And no not to me, he says I'm chubby all the time now. I'm use to him at this point.

Ok here's the scoop: There is this person that works at the local civic center where JT and I lift. They have long red hair and their sex is a little...well questionable. Both of us couldn't figure it out and have just not said anything one way or another. UNTIL one day this person was visiting with us while we did abs and JT said something about this person’s hair and how they are pretty, don't change a thing, blah, blah, blah! This person looked a little uncomfortable and come to find out that it's a dude! We thought that it was a girl for a LONG time and that she was just butch! JT thought he was paying "her" a compliment which he does frequently to people. JT forgot about calling this guy pretty until I told him this morning. (We just found out yesterday afternoon that it was a guy.) We both were laughing our asses off! I told him, "Now don't go and say hey man I thought you were a girl!" He said that he was going to do just that! We're going to lift tonight and "Josh" might be there working. I think that he should just let lying dogs lay. He wants to set things straight. This kid is still in high school and I think that something like what he wants to say will be crushing to this poor kid. What do you guys think:
- Yes, tell him he thought he was an ugly girl and that his sex is a bit ambiguous?
- No, leave it alone. Just treat him like a guy from now on.

AND don't be siding with JT just because he's your "bro" either!

I dont think i would be talking to sissy boys at the gym. Next thing you know
every one will think its your boyfreind! LMAO

 

[HELLA SWOLE]

Don't set it straight..don't say anything to him about it. Next time you see him just say "Hey man! What's up?" LOL

 

[rAJJIN]

Yes, tell him he thought he was an ugly girl and that his sex is a bit ambiguous?

Damn right tell him, he may not be happy hearing it, but at least he will know. If it was me, I would want to fucking know that I look like an ugly chick. How you tell him though will be key.

I remember when I was a snot-nosed kid working out at my local gym, one of the older guys came up to me an told me that I need to brush my hair cause I looked like an abo and all the girls were laughing at me. It hurt my feelings a little sure, but I did start taking a lot more pride in my appearance and was glad he told me.

Hahahah! great story.
Heres one of mine in my frist Gym, still in highschool.

I Big fitness center....Biggest one in this town anyhow.
Well I thought I was a pretty tough kid that had some muscles ( I didnt..Just thought at the time I did)
well I come out of the locker room all changed and ready to go!
I have on some of those Thin Baggy workout pants (remember those)
and TWO tanktops on... a red with a black over it...something like that.
Well one of the guys I had seen and Was pretty darn impressed with
(older guy..Marine recruiter..Id say he was 28-29 at the time and Pretty jacked up) well as Im coming out of the locker room he says to me (and this is someone I never spoken a word to) DAMN! your so Big you have to wear Two tank Tops.... I just snickered and walked on out..It took a minute to hit me what he Just said Then I was Like That MotherFugger!!
I was Mad, ready to fight and get beat up if thats what it took.... BUT I just let it go and Ive never Put on two tanktops again since
Later after I got to know him he turned out to be a very cool guy.
Im glad I didnt let my little attitude and ego get in the way.

 

[vitor]

MAke up a story how you were just teasing him for having long hair like a sissy girl, that will not offend him, or make ur bud sound gay.

OF all my friends with red hair, I dont know a single on that has long hair.

Why are you talking to a tranny when u are supposed to be lifting.... hahahahahaha

 

[lynx]

Hmmm...

Just so you all know I posted this today at work because I knew JT wouldn't see it until tonight.

I think he's going to say something regardless. He was laughing his ass off all morning about it. I just don't want to be there when he does! I just want to slink off while he spills his guts.

 

[JustWannaBeHuge]

be careful lynx, sounds like you may have some competition now lol. i'm just messin JT.

I would agree with Vitor, dont say "hey i thought you were a chick" I think that would prolly really screw up his self esteem, I would say it like "hey I was just teasing about the long hair and chick stuff. I think you'd look better to the ladies with shorter hair" something like that.

teenage self esteen can be damaged so easily hehe

 

[Strunk]

I vote JT dyes his hair red to show that his hair is just as pretty.

I'm with Kaiser on this one ...plus I'd just leave the incident alone.

 

[BigBoyJ]

I'd just say, cut your hair buttfucker, you're confusing people.

I'm not known for a gentle way with words.

 

[BOOMSHAKER]

Let sleeping dogs lay, if you lay down with them you wake up with fleas. Train hard and get out of the gym. Life is to short.

 

[iron fist]

I'd just say, cut your hair buttfucker, you're confusing people.

I'm not known for a gentle way with words.

LMAO ! Thats what he needs to say.

 

[JETHRO TULL]

THOSE ARE SOME FUNNY REPLIES!

HERE'S WHAT REALLY HAS BEEN GOING ON....WE'VE BEEN WORKING OUT AT THIS PLACE ON AND OFF FOR OVER A YEAR....JUST TO HAVE SOME PLACE TO GO OTHER THAN THE LIVING ROOM. WELL THIS 'GIRL'...IS REALLY HOMELY....REALLY HOMELY...SHOULDER LENGTH RED HAIR....FRECKLES....BRICK RED.

SLENDER....ABOUT 5'6 MAYBE 5'7...MEREDITH WOULD COMMENT DAILY ABOUT HOW SOME DAY THAT GIRL WILL PROBABLY DECIDE SHE'S GAY SINCE NOT TOO MANY GUYS WILL BE INTERESTED...STUFF WAS SAID LIKE THAT QUITE A BIT.

MONDAY NIGHT....AFTER THE WORKOUT..THE 'GIRL' CAME OUT AND WAS VISITING WITH US....WALLET WITH A CHAIN...TEE-SHIRT THAT SAYS 'THE DOORS' ON IT.....WELL, I NOTICED THAT SHE WASN'T WEARING A BRA.....WHEN WE GOT OUT TO THE TRUCK I MENTIONED TO MEREDITH...'GEEZ SHE'S NOT WEARING A BRA...IT'S LIKE SHE'S NOT EVEN TRYING TO BE A GIRL!" ......

EARLIER ...LIKE LAST MONTH I WAS LOOKING FOR SOMETHING NICE TO SAY...AND SHE DOES HAVE NICE, CLEAN, SHOULDER LENGTH RED HAIR..PARTED IN THE MIDDLE.....AND LIKE I SAID...WICKEDLY HOMELY.

I SAID...."WELL YOU HAVE PRETTY HAIR...NEVER CUT IT...IT LOOKS GOOD" I WAS HOPING TO POINT OUT THE MOST FEMININE THING ABOUT HER AND ENCOURAGE HER IN THAT DIRECTION! LOL....

WELL OUR SCHOOL LIBRARIAN ASKED ME IF I KNEW "JOSH" WHO WORKS AT THE CIVIC CENTER.....I WAS LIKE...HUH? 'NO....I DON'T KNOW ANY GUY NAMED JOSH"....AFTER MUCH CONFUSION...I BECAME AWARE OF THE SITUATION....

CAN YOU IMAGINE WHAT THIS POOR KID WAS THINKING? HE'S MAYBE 150LBS...IN HIGH SCHOOL...RUNS CROSS COUNTRY FOR A DIFFERENT SCHOOL [THE KIDS TOLD ME THIS TODAY] AND HERE IS THIS BIG 285LB DUMBASS WHO IS TELLING HIM HE'S GOT PRETTY HAIR. IT'S HORRIBLE!! I FEEL LIKE I SHOULD TELL HIM....HE MUST BE REALLY FREAKED OUT. I DON'T WANT HIM GOING AROUND SAYING .,.."I THINK THAT GUY WHO COMES IN HERE AT NIGHT IS WIERD"..HAHAHAHHAHAHA....

I WAS LAUGHING ABOUT IT ALL MORNING.....I DON'T KNOW WHAT THE HELL TO DO.

 

[JustWannaBeHuge]

HERE'S WHAT REALLY HAS BEEN GOING ON....WE'VE BEEN WORKING OUT AT THIS PLACE ON AND OFF FOR OVER A YEAR....JUST TO HAVE SOME PLACE TO GO OTHER THAN THE LIVING ROOM. WELL THIS 'GIRL'...IS REALLY HOMELY....REALLY HOMELY...SHOULDER LENGTH RED HAIR....FRECKLES....BRICK RED.

SLENDER....ABOUT 5'6 MAYBE 5'7...MEREDITH WOULD COMMENT DAILY ABOUT HOW SOME DAY THAT GIRL WILL PROBABLY DECIDE SHE'S GAY SINCE NOT TOO MANY GUYS WILL BE INTERESTED...STUFF WAS SAID LIKE THAT QUITE A BIT.

MONDAY NIGHT....AFTER THE WORKOUT..THE 'GIRL' CAME OUT AND WAS VISITING WITH US....WALLET WITH A CHAIN...TEE-SHIRT THAT SAYS 'THE DOORS' ON IT.....WELL, I NOTICED THAT SHE WASN'T WEARING A BRA.....WHEN WE GOT OUT TO THE TRUCK I MENTIONED TO MEREDITH...'GEEZ SHE'S NOT WEARING A BRA...IT'S LIKE SHE'S NOT EVEN TRYING TO BE A GIRL!" ......

EARLIER ...LIKE LAST MONTH I WAS LOOKING FOR SOMETHING NICE TO SAY...AND SHE DOES HAVE NICE, CLEAN, SHOULDER LENGTH RED HAIR..PARTED IN THE MIDDLE.....AND LIKE I SAID...WICKEDLY HOMELY.

I SAID...."WELL YOU HAVE PRETTY HAIR...NEVER CUT IT...IT LOOKS GOOD" I WAS HOPING TO POINT OUT THE MOST FEMININE THING ABOUT HER AND ENCOURAGE HER IN THAT DIRECTION! LOL....

WELL OUR SCHOOL LIBRARIAN ASKED ME IF I KNEW "JOSH" WHO WORKS AT THE CIVIC CENTER.....I WAS LIKE...HUH? 'NO....I DON'T KNOW ANY GUY NAMED JOSH"....AFTER MUCH CONFUSION...I BECAME AWARE OF THE SITUATION....

CAN YOU IMAGINE WHAT THIS POOR KID WAS THINKING? HE'S MAYBE 150LBS...IN HIGH SCHOOL...RUNS CROSS COUNTRY FOR A DIFFERENT SCHOOL [THE KIDS TOLD ME THIS TODAY] AND HERE IS THIS BIG 285LB DUMBASS WHO IS TELLING HIM HE'S GOT PRETTY HAIR. IT'S HORRIBLE!! I FEEL LIKE I SHOULD TELL HIM....HE MUST BE REALLY FREAKED OUT. I DON'T WANT HIM GOING AROUND SAYING .,.."I THINK THAT GUY WHO COMES IN HERE AT NIGHT IS WIERD"..HAHAHAHHAHAHA....

I WAS LAUGHING ABOUT IT ALL MORNING.....I DON'T KNOW WHAT THE HELL TO DO.

lol you're just now figuring out that you're weird? jk

 

[Queefer]

Tell him he has a nice ass and take it from there.

 

[BigBoyJ]

I agree with Queefer, Jethro. You never know, this could really turn into something special between the two of you.

 

[K1]

Play it off like a joke and tell the dude you always wanted hair like that, that's why the compliment the other day