I'm 6'2 and was sitting around 215-220 and then cut down to around 195 @ 9% or so...I can say, things have changed. Girls definitely give me a lot of looks. I don't think as MANY girls necessarily like HUGE guys but they definitely dig a lean vascular guy showing off some skin in a cut off at the gym. As long as you aren't meat-heading around yelling at the weights, of course.
In terms of the general population, people either seem to respect you (mostly strangers), or try to hate on you (usually because of jealousy) -- I can't tell you how many of my "friends" who don't know what I'm doing (because I don't talk about AAS use) started accusing me of using steroids, especially in PUBLIC when other people can hear. There's nothing more annoying than some prick saying "lay off the roids bro" as a "casual" joke.
Also you can never really tell anyone about your use because people just LOVE to spread that kinda garbage around. I made the mistake in confiding in a friend once who just literally turned around and told my entire friend group that I use drugs. Cool stuff.