Thank you for your words of support and advice. It means a lot to me, I truly appreciate it.
I’m often criticized both on forums and by friends for my over complication and obsession of variables. I think if I can constrain the application of optimization to where it is applicable that it can be a good attribute in me as a coach, so what youve said helps me support that belief in myself.
A few thoughts if helpful. If this helps attributes of a good coach or advisor:
1) Knowledge and experience
2) Knowing how/when to apply given knowledge and communicating it to the athlete
3) Being able to assess and communicate to a range of athletes (both to their capabilities/physical state and mental processing style which can vary just as significantly)
4) Being conscious of own biases and limitations
I like to think narrow and communicate 3 goals at any point in time. One is non-negotiable most important thing we are trying to accomplish. Other two are highly desirable and supportive. To a beginner, say a single mom coming into holiday season, first time in the gym after learning lifts is:
1) Don't quit. Stay in the game. Perfect is enemy of the good. If you make it here for even 1 session during a week and only squat or deadlift for maintenance - you are on the path to winning even if all else fails.
2) Try to eat a good diet, given conversation focus on X/Y/Z but #1 is the most important.
3) Don't get down on yourself and overly focus on minutia or how you you think you look/feel on any given day. This is a process and takes time and investment. No one achieved a long-term goal in one or a few sessions. If you are showing up and doing something it's better than on the couch doing nothing. It's a win. Try to expand on it, but stay in game - this is how you win.
Would my advice be even remotely similar to the average member of this board? Not even close. #1 is often a 10-20+ years in. #2 is locked and down to individual factors to optimize and minutia. I'm not remotely worried about them quitting.
My advice would also change as specialization increases. If a person's goals no longer align with your areas of competence or begin to come close to your abilities and limits - refer them on or work jointly with a specialized remote coach if you can so you can also learn more if this is desirable to you.
Likewise someone's mental processing style or even specialized needs may not be good fit for you - same thing. Example of this was the old school Bulgarian OL coaching, such a coach often had one method he'd apply to a team with only a modicum of variation. A given athlete may have a lot of potential but if they don't thrive under that method, coach sends them and gets another athlete until he finds one who will. Contrast that with a recreational coach in the US - it's capitalism and you need to make everyone their best and feel good even those with less talent, often just to keep the doors open.
What worked in a communist country with state controlled athletic programs, doesn't really work in a more free society. There are positives and negatives to this. Russians and lots of eastern block countries would test at a young age and funnel kids into sports they'd likely excel at. Natural selection from there. In the US, we have former JV benchwarmers and score keepers convinced that starting their kids at 3 years old will get them a D1 scholarship and vicariously fulfill their own childhood dreams. Invariably the advantages of starting early clog the system freezing out some superior potential late starters. But eventually many early starters are left in the dust as they never had the talent and athleticism to compete in that given sport anyway despite the hopes and dreams of their parents. You can see it on the field. There are laggards and bodies floating around not doing much - and maybe top performer or two that truly stands out. Those will move on to the next level and honestly, many find themselves average or even lagging at the next level. Competitive Darwinism. Also in the US via capitalism, our strongest/fastest/most athletic athletes are focused on football or baseball. These are also potential top Olympic lifters...but there's no money behind that option and no real economic future. Hence US dominance and competitiveness has dropped in OL with the rise of more highly compensated professional sports.
Just some ideas and fun thinking on coaching and systems.