SERIOUS HELP.. cant orgasm, difficult situation

[npcout]

I take Zoloft (SSRI) known to make orgasm difficult. I have been on for 2-3 years for OCD, but I have gotten to the point my OCD is completely 100% reversed, and my doc thinks we can go ahead and try life without it. I titrated down and today was my first day without it.

Doc says, it can take days, months, up to a year or longer to regain the ability to orgasm normal.. I personally just can't take that. I can f*ck for hours, and can't orgasm but remain extremely horny. It's not cool.

I can get an erection easy and maintain an erection, but I end up loosing my erection because I get anxious and frustrated when I try to cum and cant. I basically get pissed, then I loose my erection.

My hormone levels are fine. Completely off all gear for fertility purposes.

1500iu HCG 3x per week
6.25mg Aromasin Daily
50mg Clomid Daily
0.5mg Dostinex Twice Week (Boost dopamine which SSRI Depletes)

***A week ago I cut off completely all porn and masterbation 100%


Any suggestions at all? I just started doing kegels as I read that can help. I was googled supplements/herbs to increase penile sensitivity like maca and all, ordered a few.

I have viagra, cialis, levitra. They don't help because erections are not the problem. I even loose erections with them because I get anxious and pissed when I cant bust because I get stressed.. I feel like I need to take something like L-theanine or something to calm me maybe..

Idk.. any suggestions would be cool.

 

[Massive G]

I take Zoloft (SSRI) known to make orgasm difficult. I have been on for 2-3 years for OCD, but I have gotten to the point my OCD is completely 100% reversed, and my doc thinks we can go ahead and try life without it. I titrated down and today was my first day without it.

Doc says, it can take days, months, up to a year or longer to regain the ability to orgasm normal.. I personally just can't take that. I can f*ck for hours, and can't orgasm but remain extremely horny. It's not cool.

I can get an erection easy and maintain an erection, but I end up loosing my erection because I get anxious and frustrated when I try to cum and cant. I basically get pissed, then I loose my erection.

My hormone levels are fine. Completely off all gear for fertility purposes.

1500iu HCG 3x per week
6.25mg Aromasin Daily
50mg Clomid Daily
0.5mg Dostinex Twice Week (Boost dopamine which SSRI Depletes)

***A week ago I cut off completely all porn and masterbation 100%


Any suggestions at all? I just started doing kegels as I read that can help. I was googled supplements/herbs to increase penile sensitivity like maca and all, ordered a few.

I have viagra, cialis, levitra. They don't help because erections are not the problem. I even loose erections with them because I get anxious and pissed when I cant bust because I get stressed.. I feel like I need to take something like L-theanine or something to calm me maybe..

Idk.. any suggestions would be cool.

I feel your pain...or did...many years ago doc started me on paxil for anxiety even though I never asked for it...
Long Story short.. I lost a long term relationship because of it...was living with the greatest girl I ever met ...but suddenly I could never go off we went at it for literally an hour at a time every position every thing in the world ...the wood never left ...just nothing ever came out...she blamed herself and left me after a month...

Doc put me on wellbutrin to taper off and months later and it was like night and day...

 

[Elvia1023]

I take Zoloft (SSRI) known to make orgasm difficult. I have been on for 2-3 years for OCD, but I have gotten to the point my OCD is completely 100% reversed, and my doc thinks we can go ahead and try life without it. I titrated down and today was my first day without it.

Doc says, it can take days, months, up to a year or longer to regain the ability to orgasm normal.. I personally just can't take that. I can f*ck for hours, and can't orgasm but remain extremely horny. It's not cool.

I can get an erection easy and maintain an erection, but I end up loosing my erection because I get anxious and frustrated when I try to cum and cant. I basically get pissed, then I loose my erection.

My hormone levels are fine. Completely off all gear for fertility purposes.

1500iu HCG 3x per week
6.25mg Aromasin Daily
50mg Clomid Daily
0.5mg Dostinex Twice Week (Boost dopamine which SSRI Depletes)

***A week ago I cut off completely all porn and masterbation 100%


Any suggestions at all? I just started doing kegels as I read that can help. I was googled supplements/herbs to increase penile sensitivity like maca and all, ordered a few.

I have viagra, cialis, levitra. They don't help because erections are not the problem. I even loose erections with them because I get anxious and pissed when I cant bust because I get stressed.. I feel like I need to take something like L-theanine or something to calm me maybe..

Idk.. any suggestions would be cool.

Not the answer you want but simply time and try to remain stress free about it. The more worked up you get about it the worse it will be. How long have you been off now? It will just take time as the doctor stated. The best thing you can do is not worry about it and realize it's a temporary issue.

 

[npcout]

I feel your pain...or did...many years ago doc started me on paxil for anxiety even though I never asked for it...
Long Story short.. I lost a long term relationship because of it...was living with the greatest girl I ever met ...but suddenly I could never go off we went at it for literally an hour at a time every position every thing in the world ...the wood never left ...just nothing ever came out...she blamed herself and left me after a month...

Doc put me on wellbutrin to taper off and months later and it was like night and day...

I read about wellbutrin.. maybe I should schedule an appt and ask about that. My doc pretty much does whatever I want because im the type to do all my own research, print it out, bring it with me.. etc.

How long did it take to work?

 

[JMAC 21]

I take Zoloft (SSRI) known to make orgasm difficult. I have been on for 2-3 years for OCD, but I have gotten to the point my OCD is completely 100% reversed, and my doc thinks we can go ahead and try life without it. I titrated down and today was my first day without it.

Doc says, it can take days, months, up to a year or longer to regain the ability to orgasm normal.. I personally just can't take that. I can f*ck for hours, and can't orgasm but remain extremely horny. It's not cool.

I can get an erection easy and maintain an erection, but I end up loosing my erection because I get anxious and frustrated when I try to cum and cant. I basically get pissed, then I loose my erection.

My hormone levels are fine. Completely off all gear for fertility purposes.

1500iu HCG 3x per week
6.25mg Aromasin Daily
50mg Clomid Daily
0.5mg Dostinex Twice Week (Boost dopamine which SSRI Depletes)

***A week ago I cut off completely all porn and masterbation 100%


Any suggestions at all? I just started doing kegels as I read that can help. I was googled supplements/herbs to increase penile sensitivity like maca and all, ordered a few.

I have viagra, cialis, levitra. They don't help because erections are not the problem. I even loose erections with them because I get anxious and pissed when I cant bust because I get stressed.. I feel like I need to take something like L-theanine or something to calm me maybe..

Idk.. any suggestions would be cool.

It'll go away, just give it some time. Definitely takes more than a day. You should be back to normal within a month. Try to see the positive, you can absolutely SLAY some pussy while you have this issue - straight rock star fucking!!! lol. Seriously dont let it stress you out, just please the lady until shes begging you to stop.

 

[iceman74]

The sensitivity will come back in time, but I can't give you a magic number on how long it will take. Paxil caused me to lose a lot of the sensitivity and I could go for an hour and a half or 2 easily and not bust a nut myself. It did some major damage to the relationship with my wife and her self-esteem and self-image. Not sure if you're married or have just one girl you're with, but one most important things you can do right now is make sure she knows it's not her fault and there is absolutely nothing wrong with what she is doing or how she is looking or anything like that. You know it's an issue that YOU'RE having so make sure you don't fault her in anyway or let her become the object of your frustrations. Another big thing is to stay away from the porn. For one - it will make her look even more desirable and make it easier to focus on all 'goodies' right in front of you. For another - it will help her know that you're not busy fantasizing about something she can't or won't ever be. Also, as was already mentioned - try not to stress about it. Don't let your main focus be on cumming, but focus more on how good it feels to you and try picking up on how much it's pleasing her. For me - giving pleasure and getting her off made me even more turned on and made it easier to get back to having my own orgasm in much more reasonable amount of time. Don't know if any of this is helpful for you or not, but half your battle will be psychological and the rest will be about patience in your body returning to normal.

 

[boxer cam]

It'll go away, just give it some time. Definitely takes more than a day. You should be back to normal within a month. Try to see the positive, you can absolutely SLAY some pussy while you have this issue - straight rock star fucking!!! lol. Seriously dont let it stress you out, just please the lady until shes begging you to stop.

Top advice in my opinion. Worry less about your self in the short term and more about giving her multiple orgasms and she won't care. I wouldn't want to be in the firing line when the problem finally fixes itself!

 

[johnjuanb1]

DO you guys think a prolactin blocker like pramipexole would help?

 

[Ashop]

DO you guys think a prolactin blocker like pramipexole would help?

He's taking 1/2 mg of CABER twice per week.

 

[little slice]

tenny had the same problem until i sent him a pic of my buns :sta;-wars

 

[thethinker48]

tenny had the same problem until i sent him a pic of my buns :sta;-wars

U just can't fukin stop can u...[emoji48]

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[little slice]

U just can't fukin stop can u...[emoji48]

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can't stop won't stop

 

[chainheart]

can't stop won't stop

go ahead ruin an informative non-orgasm post with chubby buns in camos images.

 

[saffire]

pretty much what i experienced but without using SSRI, cut off completely all porn is first and important step, just give it time(we talking in weeks-months), it will get better

 

[Massive G]

I read about wellbutrin.. maybe I should schedule an appt and ask about that. My doc pretty much does whatever I want because im the type to do all my own research, print it out, bring it with me.. etc.

How long did it take to work?

It took me a few weeks ...i used the name brand and 150 mg twice a day don't take it after 4-5 pm..wellbutrin is one that has no sex side effects or weight gain...

 

[Phidias]

TONGKAT ALI... have you tried it?

An herb mainly used to boost Test levels (without the slightest aromatization into estrogens) and improve libido (you said you were horny all the time so you'll just be a little more ), but what could be of interest to you here that I noticed myself is a dramatic (for real!) increase in penile sensitivity... which results (at least should) in the end in a faster ejaculation.

If you haven't yet, please give it a try. But be careful about the purity of the extract you buy, as there can be a world of difference between a good product and all the scams floating around.

 

[Phidias]

I feel your pain...or did...many years ago doc started me on paxil for anxiety even though I never asked for it...
Long Story short.. I lost a long term relationship because of it...was living with the greatest girl I ever met ...but suddenly I could never go off we went at it for literally an hour at a time every position every thing in the world ...the wood never left ...just nothing ever came out...she blamed herself and left me after a month...

Doc put me on wellbutrin to taper off and months later and it was like night and day...

So sorry to hear, MG.

But when you think about it, us men are really unlucky: you can't cum you're fired, you cum too fast you're fired, you have the slight erection issue then again huge trouble... women basically spend their time complaining. And they dare to say it's hard to a be a girl in this world... hummmm...

 

[jasong]

Do you have any enlarged prostate symptoms? I had this problem for a short time after overdoing anti prolactin drugs, but not to your degree it sounds like.

 

[Bassguy]

Hey I worked in pysch for many years in the past and this is a common problem with SSRIs.

First if you're suffering from OCD I'd suggest looking into cognitive behavior therapy (e.g., exposure, response prevention etc.) if you haven't already done so.

For SSRI induced anorgasmia I've often seen the following used:
Adding Wellbutrin
Yohimbine
Buspar
Caber (Probably would make OCD worse)

Best of luck! I know this can be very frustrating.

 

[NOSUPERMODEL]

I kind of have the same problem. Currently on Clomipramine. Takes a while for me to orgasm. My main problem is not be able to get fully erect. Bothering me a lot. I am considering getting off of it completely to see if that helps with the problem. It used to be if the wife just looked at it wrong it got hard enough a cat couldn't scratch it. Now it's like a wet noodle sometimes. And yes I do use 5mg of Cialis on occasion. Just not daily.