Sex drive boost for 42yr old

[Born2BeAlive]

I just turned 42 and am looking to boost my sex drive, we will safe its fair at best right now.

I cycled a lot during my 20's and 30's but have been off everything about a year. I am going to get my blood work done this or next week. I have always been low when off even after a year off.

I have been working naturally to boost my ED issues including more cardio and using sex only every couple of weeks as a release. Using Cialis when needed but it always isnt getting the job done. I was tired and a little tipsy trying to have a threesome this week and it petered out about 3/4 of the way thru the experience. I cut back on drinking (not a normal thing for me but its still hit or miss especially if a little tired)

What are some good ways everyone boost sex drive in the 40's?
I feel good without trt minus the sex issues

it has been better, but a lifestyle change has me wanting more. I have access to a lot of 20 year old women that want to have sex as I run a titty bar.

I liked staying away from trt because it improved my blood pressure and heart rate was lower on average.

While I am not against getting back on as I know my levels will be low but I was seeing what others may suggest

I have some proviron at home and do people like running it alone?
I also have masteron if I get back on trt to run with it?
Should I add hcg to trt if I get back on?

I used to powerlift and train heavy but switched to doing BJJ as I got older (reason I got off everything is I took a break from the gym life) so I guess the trt would help recovery and I know the cardio aspect is helping.
I also started to work on mobility of my tight helps also adding kettlebell swings in to help loosen stuff up plus pump blood into that region a lot.

Any suggestions would help as I chasing the lifestyle more than a cycle to enhance gym performance now days.

Play with your prostate a little bit lmaooooooooo
Mt2///some tests ….all depends….

 

[marssel]

How bad was your BP on TRT?
Seems to me low dose test is the easiest and safest way to go. Bloodwork will let you know.
You worry about TRT but mention adding proviron, masteron and HCG?
I'd add one thing and look at the results before throwing a couple things at it and wondering what worked.
Either your test is low or the girls are ugly...........lol

I echo this, start with test at 42 and prior use you won’t be an animal but you’ll rock up

 

[KillerStack]

Boosting dopamine. Certain "GABA-boosters" instead of alcohol might work well for acute libido effects.

Melanotan, or that derivative that I never tried.

Shame tren is so problematic otherwise, no other androgen compares IME.

 

[Biggerp73]

imo you are a hall of fame forum guy

True

 

[Biggerp73]

Boosting dopamine. Certain "GABA-boosters" instead of alcohol might work well for acute libido effects.

Melanotan, or that derivative that I never tried.

Shame tren is so problematic otherwise, no other androgen compares IME.

Melanotan is intense. Super super intense. Far beyond anything I've experienced on test, tren, ecstacy, Viagra, Cialis, masteron, meth, caverject/trimix, etc. Lol. Im scared to use melanotan again because I don't want to become desensitized to regular sex.

 

[Pusher]

Just to clarify this matter I guess in what I am asking.

I am already loosing weight (diet is better along with being more active)
I have added in cardio to help with heart health along with blood flow
I have added in working on getting more mobile in the hips to help with blood flow
I have added in working out (BJJ 3 times a week) and especially kettlebell swings to improve blood flow in the region

I have improved it well but would like to see a little better results
Should I just get back on TRT after the labs so that my test is lower or should I try just proviron while waiting for results from a healthier lifestyle?

If I choose trt I will prolly for sure add proviron or masteron and monitor estrogen levels while on but should I add in HCG?

Kettlebell swings to improve blood flow in your dick? Or swinging a kettlebell FROM your dick?

unless You want to get a girl pregnant, I’d avoid HCG. Unless you enjoy wearing a condom and/or pulling out. I’d rather jerk off than do either of those.

and why is this even a question? “If I choose to get back on try….” ????

this Isn’t like buying a house. Get on test/TRT, if you can afford it and have access, use Proviron, and continue training. Not this “healthier lifestyle “ stuff.

if you approach sex like you’re approaching this, your issue may be psychological, as you’re overthinking it wayy too much.

 

[Black Beard]

I just turned 42 and am looking to boost my sex drive, we will safe its fair at best right now.

I cycled a lot during my 20's and 30's but have been off everything about a year. I am going to get my blood work done this or next week. I have always been low when off even after a year off.

I have been working naturally to boost my ED issues including more cardio and using sex only every couple of weeks as a release. Using Cialis when needed but it always isnt getting the job done. I was tired and a little tipsy trying to have a threesome this week and it petered out about 3/4 of the way thru the experience. I cut back on drinking (not a normal thing for me but its still hit or miss especially if a little tired)

What are some good ways everyone boost sex drive in the 40's?
I feel good without trt minus the sex issues

it has been better, but a lifestyle change has me wanting more. I have access to a lot of 20 year old women that want to have sex as I run a titty bar.

I liked staying away from trt because it improved my blood pressure and heart rate was lower on average.

While I am not against getting back on as I know my levels will be low but I was seeing what others may suggest

I have some proviron at home and do people like running it alone?
I also have masteron if I get back on trt to run with it?
Should I add hcg to trt if I get back on?

I used to powerlift and train heavy but switched to doing BJJ as I got older (reason I got off everything is I took a break from the gym life) so I guess the trt would help recovery and I know the cardio aspect is helping.
I also started to work on mobility of my tight helps also adding kettlebell swings in to help loosen stuff up plus pump blood into that region a lot.

Any suggestions would help as I chasing the lifestyle more than a cycle to enhance gym performance now days.

What was your TRT protocol; dose and frequency? Lower dose with higher frequency to address those sides might be the key. The fat loss will help as well. (Overweight people tend to have more issues with TRT).


Have you recently tested your testosterone levels?

 

[FIRE0808]

Get a blood work done with a complete hormone panel. From there then evaluate and see whats good to take/run.

 

[jbthumper]

I ordered my labs and am getting tested this week then will get back on if the labs show I am low.




As far as stretching and kettlebell swings I noticed that the majority of people later in life have tight hips (excessive sitting) causing poor blood flow to the area along with higher bodyfat, so I has trying to also potential lessen both these things instead of the normal just throw drugs at it. But I also know hormones are important and having higher bodyfat usually has an effect on test levels.

 

[jbthumper]

If I remember right tho I had to take around 300 mg to be in the 800's and I was taking 12.5mg of Aromasin.

I started with a dr and she couldn't really understand why my levels were not going up with the normal dose. So I started self with up dose and get labs. I pinned once a week. With the dr it was a 1ml every two weeks then 10 days then we added to the dose before I departed.

 

[marssel]

Boosting dopamine. Certain "GABA-boosters" instead of alcohol might work well for acute libido effects.

Melanotan, or that derivative that I never tried.

Shame tren is so problematic otherwise, no other androgen compares IME.

Mt2 will rock you up for sure so will getting a tan just less so the production of melanin has a lot of positive downstream affects

 

[alfresco]

Get a through physical, blood work, bp, etc.

Keep training and do not neglect cardio.

Do not masturbate or watch porn.

I do not think ‘drugs’ are a long term solution for your sex drive, lack of desire / libido.

Your brain is the strongest, most effective and efficient influencer / driver here. Same as a partner and lover and friend you truly care about.

I hope that what you seem to have lost can be found again.

 

[Doitagain]

You may discuss the use of Bupropion with your physician.
I have several friends in their late 40's that profoundly benefitted from this medication in the libido and state of mind departments. Do NOT self-medicate with this drug.

 

[Nike22]

Just to throw this out there...
About 10 years ago I was hella fat 265+ at 5'11", hadn't worked out in 4 years, booze every day the minute work ended.
Even though I was about the same age as you I had no ED issues during this time. Having run cycles prior to this time and for sure having tanked t-levels from the daily alcohol leads me to think that there could be more to your ED than just weight.

I think TRT is a good start, provrion sounds good, hell clomid at 50mg ed could help. But maybe (honestly long shot maybe...) talk to a councilor, maybe there's something going on upstairs that's holding you back. You never know...

 

[marssel]

Get a through physical, blood work, bp, etc.

Keep training and do not neglect cardio.

Do not masturbate or watch porn.

I do not think ‘drugs’ are a long term solution for your sex drive, lack of desire / libido.

Your brain is the strongest, most effective and efficient influencer / driver here. Same as a partner and lover and friend you truly care about.

I hope that what you seem to have lost can be found again.

Why not jack off to a few min of porn, I keep my libido up by using it, I don’t watch weird shit just 5 min of big tits and then when the wife and I have time I’m not blowin fast bc I’m over sensitive. When I don’t jack off a few times a week my libido ALWAYS drops

 

[marssel]

You may discuss the use of Bupropion with your physician.
I have several friends in their late 40's that profoundly benefitted from this medication in the libido and state of mind departments. Do NOT self-medicate with this drug.

I have a wellness chic on Wellbutrin and she is a fucking animal I mean 3-5 times a day and a squirter I assume it’ll work for dudes though I’ve heard it’s hard for dudes to cum on meds

 

[simon birch]

Get a through physical, blood work, bp, etc.

Keep training and do not neglect cardio.

Do not masturbate or watch porn.

I do not think ‘drugs’ are a long term solution for your sex drive, lack of desire / libido.

Your brain is the strongest, most effective and efficient influencer / driver here. Same as a partner and lover and friend you truly care about.

I hope that what you seem to have lost can be found again.

I'm with Alfresco man. Run your test, keep your training up, and eat clean. Definitely could be a mental thing bro. Don't be ashamed to talk to someone if you got shit goin on. I've done it in the past and it's helped me thru a lot of different situations.

 

[marssel]

I'm with Alfresco man. Run your test, keep your training up, and eat clean. Definitely could be a mental thing bro. Don't be ashamed to talk to someone if you got shit goin on. I've done it in the past and it's helped me thru a lot of different situations.

Why do y’all thinking jerking off is bad for libido. Obviously I mean reasonably say daily or less (assuming you didn’t have sex that day) now with a baby in the house we have to plan sex and I always jack off day before or morning before to keep my libido up and my sensitivity down so I can just destroy it.

 

[danieltx]

Why do y’all thinking jerking off is bad for libido. Obviously I mean reasonably say daily or less (assuming you didn’t have sex that day) now with a baby in the house we have to plan sex and I always jack off day before or morning before to keep my libido up and my sensitivity down so I can just destroy it.

I'd like to know this too.

For me, libido is use it or lose it - if I'm masturbating regularly I'm more horny regularly and we're having sex more often. If I'm not it's the opposite.

 

[goback2013]

I'd like to know this too.

For me, libido is use it or lose it - if I'm masturbating regularly I'm more horny regularly and we're having sex more often. If I'm not it's the opposite.

I see no problem with that. Especially when you're with a woman who does it for you.
In fact she may be the catalyst to the extra libido. I know this first hand. No pun