Sick of the bullshit!

[Dusty Hanshaw]

Everyone knows that I'm pretty new compared to most here but I've loved this board because it is open to debate that helps all members but lately I feel like we are on GetBig. If you aren't going to contribute valid information to a thread don't post. Bullshit will ruin this board. If you have personal issues use PM's or shut the F*ck up. Knowone cares about personal BS.

 

[sickboy]

Totally agree.....when things get personal it ruins everything.

 

[Got Juice]

Unfortunately that's going to happen on any board because you are always getting new members. However, I think the PM admin does a good job of warning and banning members that are clearly breaking the board rules.

At the end of the day, it's still the same good dudes posting. You just have to sort through a few meaningless posts to get to the good ones.

 

[buffbabeca]

hey hey.. there isnt just "dudes" posting here.....


I know what you mean dusty... but I think our admins do a good job with the trolls as i like to call them....

are you really that upset about me and your girl running off to Oz to live LOL JK

 

[oldfella]

hey hey.. there isnt just "dudes" posting here.....


I know what you mean dusty... but I think our admins do a good job with the trolls as i like to call them....

are you really that upset about me and your girl running off to Oz to live LOL JK

Don't be draggin me into this....I don't need no jealous BF's turning up on my doorstep!!

 

[Got Juice]

bec, you are considered on of the "dudes" to me, come 'on I figured you knew this!

 

[Dusty Hanshaw]

hey hey.. there isnt just "dudes" posting here.....


I know what you mean dusty... but I think our admins do a good job with the trolls as i like to call them....

are you really that upset about me and your girl running off to Oz to live LOL JK

Mad? No. I just wish I was Oldfella. I gotta give the guy props. I never have two women offering to move to my house and cook and clean while avoiding tan lines.

 

[buffbabeca]

Mad? No. I just wish I was Oldfella. I gotta give the guy props. I never have two women offering to move to my house and cook and clean while avoiding tan lines.

awwww thanks dusty... cant wait to meet u and the lady either at the TOC or for sure I will come by the booth at the O

 

[TooPowerful4u]

Everyone knows that I'm pretty new compared to most here but I've loved this board because it is open to debate that helps all members but lately I feel like we are on GetBig. If you aren't going to contribute valid information to a thread don't post. Bullshit will ruin this board. If you have personal issues use PM's or shut the F*ck up. Knowone cares about personal BS.

You are absolutely right. Its not just newbies that do this either. I think we all need to be a little less childish here and get back to what we are here for and what we love...

 

[buffbabeca]

You are absolutely right. Its not just newbies that do this either. I think we all need to be a little less childish here and get back to what we are here for and what we love...

I think you are right in SOME sense but remember also this is the internet and this is things "type" onto the board.. which leave some room for interpretation so it might be taken the wrong way at times.. also some people on here know each other OFF the board and have that comfort level with each other that others might not understand. Again just an idea of why SOME of this might be happening... there is always gonna be things you might think are OK to say and then arent... thank God for the edit feature.. saved my behind a few times...



can we get a group hug!!!!!!!!!

 

[terryd5150]

I agree...

While it can be amusing sometimes when people disagree, I can't stand this rift that seems to be going between Phil and KM2000 and Phil and TP4U.

I think all three are good BBer's (at their respective levels) and hopefully they will all see that we are all on the same side here:

To get better at what we do.

 

[buffbabeca]

I guess I dont read enough of the "man" threads to notice the tension... but I dont see the name to call out names Terry.... sowwy just gonna stir the pot more it seems

 

[Kaiser]

As BigA told me a while back when I had the same concern, It happens every once in a while then blows over. Either way, we're dealing with a world wide thing here, not a high school basketball thing. It's hard to force everyone to have the same thoughts. Hang in there Dusty, we appreciate you here and hope you weather the storm.

 

[terryd5150]

I DO!!!

... but I dont see the name to call out names Terry....

They all need to know THA TRUTH, I'm not gonna sugar-coat it for them.


Maybe if they realize the impact they have among the board and it's members they will start to comport themselves as BBer's worthy of PROFESSIONAL MUSCLE!

 

[buffbabeca]

They all need to know THA TRUTH, I'm not gonna sugar-coat it for them.


Maybe if they realize the impact they have among the board and it's members they will start to comport themselves as BBer's worthy of PROFESSIONAL MUSCLE!

understood...

 

[Kaiser]

You are absolutely right. Its not just newbies that do this either. I think we all need to be a little less childish here and get back to what we are here for and what we love...

TPFU, you were the first one to pull out the "suck my dick card" I have heard in a while. I have the thread so I know what trasnpired. You for one take a simple comment that Phil makes and turns it into a thread nightmare. You need to learn how to deal with these situations. Do not think I am picking on you because I just told Phil about some of the issues he was causing in another thread, as you can look up. I am not playing sides here, but the whole "mother fucker" and "cock sucker" will not get you anywhere here so remember that. We are all not perfect, an I sure as hell have my flaws, but stop over reacting to the situation. I let that thread go when you said that to him after he egged you on out of respect for your longevity and contributions here. If it was another member they would have been on a slight vacation for those comments. Again, I know your anger, but it needs to be tamed and your attack process need to be thought out better. I seem to remember attacking you, in not such a bad manner a while back, then publicly appoligizing because I was out of line. No one is above respect level here.

 

[Dusty Hanshaw]

As BigA told me a while back when I had the same concern, It happens every once in a while then blows over. Either way, we're dealing with a world wide thing here, not a high school basketball thing. It's hard to force everyone to have the same thoughts. Hang in there Dusty, we appreciate you here and hope you weather the storm.

Thanks Kaiser,

I'm not going anywhere. This is by far the best board anywhere. I just had to say my piece in hopes that others would agree and the bullshit would stop. I saw every post of the threads that were deleted and even locked lately so I know exactly what went on. I understand that people are going to disagree and even fight but it needs to end in that thread and not be brought up again. I suggest this thread be deleted tomorrow so it can just be in the past. Thanks-D

 

[terryd5150]

Good point Kaiser...

TPFU, you were the first one to pull out the "sxck my dxck card" I have heard in a while.

Guys, when it resorts to this then everyone involved starts to lose credibility and it makes the board as whole start to look bad.


What if that was the first thread a promising young newbie opened? He would probably not be back and would not take us (ProMuscle) seriously.


We are going to disagree, plain and simple. But when we do, let's do it in a better way than this.

 

[joeshow5]

I haven't been here long, but I do love this board. Its the first bodybuilding board I've ever been on and the knowledge I've gained is amazing. You are all great people and I read all of your posts. I don't know any of those "LBA" guys personally, but it sucks seeing stuff like that. Its like watching friends fight. Weird for me considering this is an internet message board.....

 

[OuchThatHurts]

You girls are going to give that old bastard a heart attack and I'm going to lose a good buddy! So thanks for nothing! Who will I beat up on when he's gone?

Here's the problem. The egos here, while large, are too fragile. The need to have enough self-confidence to not become angry or hurt over meaningless rhetoric can not be overemphasized.