Significant others pic

econ mba · May 19, 2018

WTXmuscle88 said:
Serious work! I bet you are proud of her!! We gotta work hard to keep up. My wife is so far ahead of me its not even funny!!

Great progress!

econ mba · May 19, 2018

graybass said:
OK, one more off season shot. I think is sized better.

Beautiful! Congrats!

econ mba · May 19, 2018

graybass said:
I'd like to thank the people who commented on my GF. It's been a few weeks now and I still think she's going to show up or call me. I keep waking up in the middle of the night thinking I heard her. Never lost a soulmate before, a significant other. My heart goes out to anyone on here who lost a loved one. I still don't know how to act. I tell people about her and I have weird thoughts like is she watching, am I supposed to cry? I'm I supposed to be strong, I don't know how to act. Think my heart and soul is still in shock. I actually feel weird when people say "sorry for your loss" I feel like they should tell her "sorry for your loss" She's dead I'm here.
Thanks again.

My heart goes out to you, bro.

aphextwin · May 20, 2018

MrPump said:
My two ladies.

She has veins in her shoulders. You can tell she's lean

MRX MRX · May 29, 2018

What a great thread
You guys and you lovelies rock man!

luckyone · May 30, 2018

So sorry for your loss

graybass said:
I'd like to thank the people who commented on my GF. It's been a few weeks now and I still think she's going to show up or call me. I keep waking up in the middle of the night thinking I heard her. Never lost a soulmate before, a significant other. My heart goes out to anyone on here who lost a loved one. I still don't know how to act. I tell people about her and I have weird thoughts like is she watching, am I supposed to cry? I'm I supposed to be strong, I don't know how to act. Think my heart and soul is still in shock. I actually feel weird when people say "sorry for your loss" I feel like they should tell her "sorry for your loss" She's dead I'm here.
Thanks again.

A belated response to your loss Bro. My deepest condolences. Remember that though gone physically she is still with you and a part of you everyday, at least if you keep her that way in your life. It does not mean not being able to move on in life, but it means being grateful for who you are because of her and for the time you were blessed to have together. Hope you find this helpful. Hang in there, many of us have you in our prayers.

your brother in Christ,

Lucky

graybass · Aug 10, 2018

Been more than 4 months since my beautiful Michelle passed. Whoever said time heals all wounds never lost a soulmate.
Don't know if many of you guys believe in angels but, Michelle came to me in a dream the other night. Totally lucid dreaming. Like I was wide awake but knew I was dreaming. As clear as I'm sitting at my computer now.
I was sleeping on my sofa and my phone rang. I picked it up and it was her. I said "what the hell are you doing?" She answered "what the hell are YOU doing" In her best wise ass voice. I started crying and she said "shut the fuck up!" LOL "She said all is well I'll see you soon" I could see her so clear, I could feel her so clearly. At this point I came wide awake and realized I was talking into my TV remote! Holy Shit. No one will ever convince me it was not really her. I think the message was she is watching over me and loves me. No ever really dies. I'm not looking for sympathy, just thought my experience might help others. I actually feel better (a little anyway)

graybass · Aug 10, 2018

Don't know why pic is so big I re-sized it down 70%

tripleOT · Aug 10, 2018

Thanks for sharing graybass. I believe you 100%. She just wanted you to know she's still there.

terryd5150 · Aug 12, 2018

My deepest condolences on your loss, graybass.

Marvin Martian · Aug 13, 2018

graybass said:
Been more than 4 months since my beautiful Michelle passed. Whoever said time heals all wounds never lost a soulmate.
Don't know if many of you guys believe in angels but, Michelle came to me in a dream the other night. Totally lucid dreaming. Like I was wide awake but knew I was dreaming. As clear as I'm sitting at my computer now.
I was sleeping on my sofa and my phone rang. I picked it up and it was her. I said "what the hell are you doing?" She answered "what the hell are YOU doing" In her best wise ass voice. I started crying and she said "shut the fuck up!" LOL "She said all is well I'll see you soon" I could see her so clear, I could feel her so clearly. At this point I came wide awake and realized I was talking into my TV remote! Holy Shit. No one will ever convince me it was not really her. I think the message was she is watching over me and loves me. No ever really dies. I'm not looking for sympathy, just thought my experience might help others. I actually feel better (a little anyway)

there is no doubt in my mind that as we evolve - we will one day look back at the primitive way that we view the death of the body and realize just how unaware that we were. She is not "gone" - she has moved. The molecules that make up your body were here at the beginning of time - there is simple a transference from matter to energy and back to matter again..
the sadness and tears for missing loved ones and anguish we feel are because we don't understand yet,.

oneofakind · Aug 14, 2018

So very sorry for your loss!! I got upset reading this....

powerof2 · Aug 14, 2018

5 years

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graybass · Jan 25, 2019

Just thought I'd revisit this thread. Still miss my Michelle but slowly moving on. Dating a new girl, she's more of a party girl but this is probably good for me at this point. Michelle and I were together on and off for 15 years. We always had a couple of ex's floating around but we always came back to each other. Our last conversation was in the end it will just be us. She was my fitness and bodybuilding partner too. Don't mean to go on and on. Posting here is good therapy for me. I have some pics of the new one I'll post but all I can find are naked!!!!! LOL

tripleOT · Jan 25, 2019

graybass said:
Just thought I'd revisit this thread. Still miss my Michelle but slowly moving on. Dating a new girl, she's more of a party girl but this is probably good for me at this point. Michelle and I were together on and off for 15 years. We always had a couple of ex's floating around but we always came back to each other. Our last conversation was in the end it will just be us. She was my fitness and bodybuilding partner too. Don't mean to go on and on. Posting here is good therapy for me. I have some pics of the new one I'll post but all I can find are naked!!!!! LOL

By all means, go on and on if you need to graybass. I'm a good listener and so is many others here. We got you.

graybass · Jan 31, 2019

Thanks guys!
Now lets post up some beautiful pics of our significant others. I know most of the members girls work out!

smcstevesmc · Feb 1, 2019

graybass said:
I'd like to thank the people who commented on my GF. It's been a few weeks now and I still think she's going to show up or call me. I keep waking up in the middle of the night thinking I heard her. Never lost a soulmate before, a significant other. My heart goes out to anyone on here who lost a loved one. I still don't know how to act. I tell people about her and I have weird thoughts like is she watching, am I supposed to cry? I'm I supposed to be strong, I don't know how to act. Think my heart and soul is still in shock. I actually feel weird when people say "sorry for your loss" I feel like they should tell her "sorry for your loss" She's dead I'm here.
Thanks again.

It's hard to know what to feel, it's normal to feel everything, you just have to deal with it as it comes. Death sucks, I know that death is a temporary physical separation, but it doesn't make it hurt any less, it's hard to understand.
I thought your lucid dream was really cool, I have had them and they are not dreams, they are very real. I am sure she was trying to communicate with you.

mruniverse2020 · Feb 11, 2019

powerof2 said:
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What a transformation. Bigger neck as the most guys, I like!

Spid118 · Mar 13, 2019

graybass said:
Training my girl for few yrs now. This is her off season shape. She goes down to about 7% BF for figure shows. She's 42 years young BTW!

Hardcore training, 5 day split.

She looks great for that age

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graybass · Aug 6, 2020

Had to say hello to this thread again. I was just thinking of my Michelle that passed. I can't believe it's been a couple of years already. Just wanted to share some more details. Michelle was my soulmate. Started dating a new girl that was totally the opposite of Michelle. Total party animal, drank like a fish, smoked like a chimney, did drugs occasionally, just way different. She was a blabber mouth that never shut up, and an emotional rollercoaster. Real high highs, real low lows. As Howard Stern said, "The crazier they are, the better they are in bed." Sex was insane and had the best fake tits I ever saw! I gotta tell you, I thought, well she's hanging with me, I'll be a good influence. WRONG!!! She was a bad influence for me. Her crazy lifestyle wore off on me a little. She was an arrogant bitch and thought her shit didn't stink. So I finally had enough and kicked her to the curb. Makes me miss Michelle even more. I'd kill for a nice girl to go the the gym with me, eat clean with me, and just be nice. Anyway I still miss her terribly. It doesn't go away. I'm not going to look for a new girlfriend, just go with the flow! Good luck everyone. If you have someone you love, don't take them for granted. You never know when you'll spend your last day with them.
Feeling a little lost again