Do yourself a favor, kick her to the curb. A big girl now becomes an even bigger girl later. Genetics will dictate this along with bad habits that she will likely always have. You don’t want to be that miserable guy who hates his wife with no sex life etc. You will end up resenting her and cheating on her with hot, thin chicks that you could have had in the first place.
Not what you want to hear but I have so many friends and coworkers that ended up like this. You can see the look in their eyes of sheer misery, it would be funny if it wasn’t so sad.
Thank God I never settled until I found exactly what I wanted and knew going forward that it would remain that way. Guys at work hate me for it and I couldn’t be happier. Choose wisely...
I was settling with women that were total ruthless cunts bc how hot they were. I like em thick. She has just gained some weight recently and I am in love with her and will not leave her. Im gonna be with her and help her thru this to get back to what she was.
I would never cheat on her. We have good sex. She has tons of muscle too. IDK how still but she did lift with me for a while and the chick is strong. This isnt that situation. I left a certifiable 10 tattoo artist named Lindsay for this girl.
Im posting this bc I love her with all of my heart and her family and am concerned about her recent weight gain and Im being told Im trolling. This is the woman Im gonna marry. She wont be this way forever bc if she has to have a surgery she will, but thats last resort. Her dad and sister had it and the dad is big but much smaller now and the sister is now normal sized Id say and has more confidence. My girl Katrina only recently has lost her confidence some but she wasnt she ashamed fat girl her sister was.
Ive dated some mega hotties and many were good, but there wont be her getting bigger and bigger bc I love her and want to keep her around and help her get healthier.
She has been there for me at rock bottom, when I was doing bad in life and stood by me bc thats love and I will always do the same for her. If you saw her you wouldnt say "damn thats a giant ass ugly bitch" bc she wears it well, but recently stress and bad eating and not working out has gotten her much bigger. Quarantine got us both bigger, and I work out so I lost most of it already and added more muscle.
But no I am not trolling. Thats what she looks like, and thats what she weighs. And Im certainly not gonna leave the woman Im gonna marry bc she has gained some weight. Im not that superficial. I want her healthy. I want her confidence back, and Im going to do whatever it takes to help her get there.
My whole life has gotten better since Ive been with her. She has made me a better man, urged me to improve my credit, helped me when I would switch jobs. We have our money, not mine or hers.
I am far from settling with this one. She is having some issues right now and doesnt look the way she did 2 years agi but Im not gonna jump ship bc she gained some weight. Ive seen her lose it quickly I need her at the gym w me again and us eating healthy like we were before.
I wouldnt post this as a troll or ask if I didnt love her and want real advice. I like my women ticker and she wants to get back to what she was. I take her to the doc in 5 hours so Im off to bed