I know you were not responding to my post but still. If you read my post and then look at your post .. a significant other does have direct influence on my life, meaning I would of course care if someone in my direct circle gambled my house away. If my neighbor gambles his house away, why would I gossip about it? Not my problem at all, same goes for the fact that I wouldn't gossip about things if he made a fortune playing poker. No direct influence on me -> no need to waste energy and let negativity get the better of me
It’s not about negative or positive... It’s just a conversation, I’m not saying you’re going to scream it from the roof tops and tell every single person you’ve ever known.. But you’re telling me if you were in your driveway and saw your neighbor weeping in his front lawn, his wife and kids leaving him because he lost the house on a bet etc you’d just walk in your house and not say a word to your wife or your family or to anyone ever? You’d take it to your grave? Lol You just don’t react at all to the world around you and live in your own circle of life and that’s it?
C’mon bro...