Girlfriend and I (M) had a fun MFMF lined up with some friends of ours for tomorrow. Mentioned earlier this week to the other couple that the SO and I had been screened recently, expected to hear back if they had, but we didn't get a response. Asked last night what the last time they were screened was, and if they had any other active partners. While they don't have active partners, they have not been screened. Other F said while she's only had two partners in her life (one of whom is the other M) and as far as she knows neither of them have had other partners in the time she's been with them, she HAS gives blood regularly and has not been rejected by Red Cross.
I am thinking that the correct thing to do here is to ask "Would you mind getting screened and having play after that point?" and just hanging out and having make outs before that point? I'm pretty sure this is the correct decision but nonmonogamy is very new (as in this would be only our second experience) to the SO and I so we would like some validation.
I am thinking that the correct thing to do here is to ask "Would you mind getting screened and having play after that point?" and just hanging out and having make outs before that point? I'm pretty sure this is the correct decision but nonmonogamy is very new (as in this would be only our second experience) to the SO and I so we would like some validation.