Thanks Vander, people can tell by my post count and when I registered, that I read and take in knowledge the majority of the time (I'm always reading Big A's, Phil's, IA's, Ouch's, BBA, BN's posts among others) and I am not on this board commenting or giving my opinion on everything.
That being said, I've seen you take alot of criticism, nit picking and attempts at being torn down, for nothing other than you being you and looking the way you are. I've seen it on other boards as well, in fact I think the primate pic was born on Mayhem because someone was so pissed that they couldn't
get the board to agree that they were better than you.
The human spirit is very competitive in nature and alpha-male mentality runs rampant in the gym. Guys are not so easy to accept someone walking in who is superior at their own game and they naturally become defensive and look for ways to start to tear them down IF they can.
Geez, just watch one episode of elimdate, you'll see what human nature is all about when it comes to looks and trying to get attention.
You can even read beyond the good natured ribbing. TP jokes that when you go out all of the girls will flock to you. He is friendly with you and can roll with it, but don't think deep down that there isn't a small fire lit. Same with alot of these other guys and their physiques.
A perfect example is a long time ago on your V8/beef drink thread, I asked you a question about it, simply because I wanted to keep my beef intake at a certain level, but had gotten tired of preparing it. Well as soon as I posted asking you about it, someone posted right after and said "oh, you think you can look like Vander by drinking that hahahaha"
That is what you have to go through. If anyone even talks to you or asks you a question, there has to be something going on. It's ridiculous.
They simply will not begrudge anything to you, there will always be a weakness, always that you are using excuses, that you look funny, that your haircut is stupid, your headband is gay, your wrists are 1/8" larger than you said.
I just thought that'd Id step up and be in your corner, to help get some points across (not that you needed any help or asked for it) and you know what, people got pissed at that too !!! And because I was on your side...then guess what magically happened. I became gay an ass kisser or whatever else, complete with gay photos! lmao, too predictable I guess.
I'm just racking my brain what they will come up with if you ever chose to compete seriously (which at this point in time, I hope you DO NOT do), filled out your legs, went to a new stylist and got your hair cut different, didn't wear a headband...
Let's see, it would be you drove a stupid car, listened to gay music, that you overdeveloped your legs and now your waist looks blocky, your traps are lagging because you focused on legs...and the world keeps spinning lol