Man I've been off dope for 3 years and was actively shooting the shit for 4. Why the F*CK would you take an opiate if you're trying to get clean?
1.) Detox off the suboxone because you're not really clean. I did it in jail, it sucked, but it was the best thing that ever happened to me.
2.) Go to NA or AA. Ask for help. You probably can't do it by yourself. Actually, I know you can't because you're on suboxone. Its not a bad thing. I couldn't do it myself. It took jail, rehab, and AA.
3.) Stay away from gear and vicaine (lol can't believe I'm saying this) until you're completely clean.
4.) Get on vivitrol if you have a lot of trouble.
Please help yourself and get clean for good man. I have accomplished more in the 3 years I've been clean than most people do in their entire lives.
It's common sense that someone isn't technically "clean" when using buprenorphine, but it's not really about being "clean". It is about the person's quality of life. After all, isn't that the WHOLE reason people get clean from drugs like heroin--to regain their former quality of life? Yes...it is. To quote the AA Big Book, addiction is a problem for one main reason...
"because their lives have become unmanageable".
So, if Bup helps the individual regain manageability...and their life is better with it than without it, isn't that what we are all trying to accomplish? Isn't that the whole point of being "clean". Yes...yes it is.
If that means not using Bup...great, but if it means someone needs to use it, well, that's fine too. Whatever it takes to regain their former quality of life. In your case, you do better without it, but there are many others who have gone off Bup for years and then realized their life was better with it, so they went back on.
You are entitled to your opinion, but there is no denying that many peoples' lives are better with Bup. I am one of them. My life has never been better. I have never been healthier. I have never been more mentally and emotionally sound. I have never been more successful. It's worked miracles for me. Even after 5 years of being completely clean (before Bup), my life SUCKED. I was constantly depressed...constantly had insomnia...and always had this internal feeling of things being "off". I never felt well, despite taking every measure I could think of to restore normal functioning.
Once I went on Bup (after 5 years of being clean), my life changed for the better in every way. No more cravings for ANY opioid. No more depression...no more insomnia...more more "off" feeling. I am happy and content and I cannot tell I even use Bup anymore. my brain adapted to the drug many years ago, yet all of its benefits are still present.
I cannot even begin to tell you how many people I saw in AA/NA who were still struggling with addiction and its long-term consequences even after years of being clean. For these people, staying clean meant becoming a slave to their recovery. They constantly had to go to meetings, constantly be involved in support groups, constantly work 12 step programs, constantly meet wit their sponsor...and it was still a constant struggle.
Guess what? I did all that for 5 years...all of it...and I realized that I had become a slave to recovery. It required constant work. I had to depend on all of the things mentioned above just to stay clean...and yet I was still unwell because my brain's functioning never normalized. To be honest, I don't think it ever was normal...because I feel better and happier now than before I ever used a single opioid. Staying clean without Bup was a constant battle...and for what? So I could give up a life of hardship for a life of sacrifice?
I bypassed all of that hardship and sacrifice with a single pill...and my life is infinitely better because of it. I no longer have to call people at 2 am saying I am struggling not to use. I don't have to go to NA meeting 5 days a week. I don't have to sit down with sponsors. I don't have to go to support groups.
My life is actually normal now. The only downside is that I am now a slave to a pill, but I would rather be a slave to a pill that causes my life no problems and only makes it better...than endure life a life of constant struggle and sacrifice. That is a trade-off I was happy to make and anytime the topic of buprenorphine and my addiction comes up, I always tell people that it saved my life.
Don't get me wrong, I have absolutely no problem with anyone who wants to go the AA/NA, sponsor, support group, insomnia, depression, pain and sacrifice route...but neither should anyone have a problem with those who choose another path. Even recovery groups are now finally starting to accept people who use buprenorphine as being in active recovery...because they were forced to accept that these people's lives are now manageable again...and that's the whole point of recovery. Experience is bearing this out every day in the real-world.