Whats too old? o/t -> women

Hypertrophyguy · Feb 10, 2004

Whats too old guys??

Im 23 and getting pretty friendly with a woman that is 39. I really want to ask her out. She looks like she is in her late 20's though and in INCREDIBLE shape I mean awesome shape. My pesky boss got the low down on her (not without embarrassing me big time) and its a go all I need to do is make the move.. I hate to think about dating someone if I kind of plan on doing the leasing option and just turning her in once the miles get too high. But she really is nice and who knows......

totalrecall54 · Feb 11, 2004

take

take 'er for a spin... no harm in that
does she work with ya.... ?

that's the only iffy part... if shit goes south.. and you work with the person.. then you have to deal with that part of it

good luck bro!
keep us posted

-totalrecall54

mike man · Feb 11, 2004

Hyper

Take her out to dinner and see how she interests you. I would pretty much guarentee that with her being that much older than you, she isn't stupid thinking that you may want to end up marrying her or something. She is surely thinking you got sex on your mind and I'm sure she does too!
Just like said though, if you work with her, she could stir up the shit if she turns bitter.

MikeS · Feb 11, 2004

Hell she is probably in it for the same reasons as you!
Dont be offended-but she is probably not interested in a relationship with a guy as young as you. As you are not interested because of her age.
Hit it! She may teach you a thing or two. HAHAHAHA

And dont forget to tell all since you now have us all involved.

Got Juice · Feb 11, 2004

hey hype,

like mike said just go out with her and see how things go. im the same was as you, if i think a girl is pretty cool or whatever, i wont fuck her over. ill tell her upfront im not really looking for a serious relationship, etc. most of the time they are cool with that anyways so you are good to go.

also, i was hookin up with a 30yo when i was 19, and i met her parents!! lol, talk about werid.

Later,

todd

bolo · Feb 11, 2004

think of it like driving a 65" vett, lots of fun but becareful it has alot of miles on it

Hypertrophyguy · Feb 11, 2004

god you guys are hilarious. lol
no she doesn't work with me exactly there are 3 seperate entities to our gym. The gym, the nutrition store (my stomping grounds), and the child care (her digs). So while we are in close proximity we aren't governed by the same peeps.
haha we will see how it goes, I haven't even formaly introduced myself we both know who the other is and she is more than aware of my interest and apparently my interest was warmly recieved so we will see how shit goes. The only problem is the girl I have been dating for a few months works out at this gym and brings me lunch on a daily basis.... So gonna have to work that out somehow.

Hmm must adapt somehow.

Mr Pickels · Feb 11, 2004

bump what mikeman said

take pics too... we could start a "ProMuscleMILF" site too... charge people....

crackerjack414 · Feb 11, 2004

my girls 26 iam 21 i dont know its kinda wierd with her having a real job and me still in school. It doesnt realy seem to be an issue for us

Hypertrophyguy · Feb 11, 2004

Yeah we will see, I saw her at the gym today but she was working so we couldn't talk.

Cracker yeah man I have dated girls 5-6 years older than me but never actually dated (for longer than a night) one that is 16 years older than me. Its kinda scary thinking she was driving around when I was born.

Ehh oh well I guess we could be the buff version of the demi moore and the 70's show guy.
lol ok im getting way ahead of myself I haven't even really had a conversation with her longer than a minute so after all this hype I will probably get shot down in a blaze of glory lol. Shit happens.

cannibal · Feb 11, 2004

Older women, as a rule, from my limited experiance.
Great in bed, experiance, know what they want, etc
Can either be carefree and in for some fun, with no expectations as have been burnt before.
Or looking for a husband, they know father time is catching up on them. This breed is impossible to shake (I was 23, she was 33, took me 4months and blatant "cheating" to shake that one, dangerous).
Always go safe, one mate ended up with a kid and lifetime of commitiment after an older fling assured him she was on the pill. Turns out she wasn't and thought getting pregnant would net her a man.

Hypertrophyguy · Feb 11, 2004

"This breed is impossible to shake" LMAO!!!! lol thats pretty funny bro!!

Haha yeah well as far as the getting pregnant thing goes Im pretty sure my little buddies have checked out for a while. So I guess im on "the pill" and "the shot" so I should be covered.
Back with my ex we never used protection and we went 2 years with a pretty healthy record and never had so much as a scare..... Ok I take that back one scare where I ended up in the Kmart checkout line with nothing but a mtn. dew and a pregnancy test. phew.

Got Juice · Feb 11, 2004

dude hype, those are some scary days brother. standing there in line with your stomach tightened holding nothing but a pregnancy test. lol man ive been there a couple time. i think ive spen a good 200$ on those fuckers!!! lol,

not mentioning the time my GF made me get her the aftermorning pill, which i had to get online cause all the docs were closed sat and sun and it happened on a friday. so i had to get an online perscription from florida, sent to missouri, then i had to pay for the shit!!!

good luck and let us know what happens!

Later,

Todd

TRAPS21 · Feb 11, 2004

Older women that are interested in younger guys could give two shits about your interests. They want sex, plain and simple. They know how to do it and that is always a plus for the young guys. Hit it and quit it. Hit it again if she has no kids. You don't want one of those little bastards tugging on your foot in the morning asking mommy who this strange guy with morning wood is. Not fun, personal experience.

But on the other hand, if you really like the girlfriend, keep flirting and playing grabass so that can be a fallback if the GF goes sour.

Hypertrophyguy · Feb 12, 2004

Well its on. After yesterdays fiasco with my boss embarrasing both of us she came right in today and was much more talkative than she has been before so Im taking that as the green light. I'll let you all know how things go.

I never would have guessed her age and I had to double check again on the computer to see it for myself she looks EASILY 10 years younger. huh oh well we'll see how it goes.

ANd the girlfriend. Ehhh she was more an accessory than a girlfriend I guess. She is the swimsuit model that I kinda thought I liked more than I actually do because of all the attention we get. Im sure we will stay friends, we both have dirtbikes together and we both like the arts but I dont think its going anywhere its just missing that spark, when ever we do anything I just kinda go through the motions. Its a shame she is a very nice down to earth girl but oh well.

ON TO THE MILF ACTION!!!