Well,
Yesterday marks one year since I moved to San Diego and today marks a year working for Dante.
Time flies. I love it out here...but the social life aspect is rough. I am not sure if it's moving across the country at 38 or doing it during the 'pandemic' but it certainly is harder to meet, interact, and build relationships with people. Thanks for everyone that threw in their .02 and if anyone else is out here - speak up!
running may not be your thing.. but for most of 2021(jan - sept) i was in san diego.. consistently running carlsbad state beach, moonlight beach, and mission/pacific beach boardwalks.
meeting females and linking up was a non-issue.. like fishing in barrel or whatever the saying is.. weekend mornings at moonlight is filled with divorced soccer moms like no other.. go work out, at moonlight,
run around the residential hills surrounding the beach(like everyone else), take off your shirt, while doing all that, and they will flock.. conveniently walk by the volleyball nets and or by the females doing their bodyweight yoga thing..
even join in those open group sessions.. showing up regularly helps too.. "oh i saw you last week.. you come out here often.. you live around here..' you get that sorta shit..
i met a female while running PB.. i noticed she was staying behind me for most of my run.. tried to get more distance, and she kept up.. i turned around and said, 'am i pacing you?'
we just finished the run and chopped it up for a while.. many examples like that with both females and males(no homo).. dudes trying to race you.. i meet the challenge.. its freakn fun..
ill throw down even.. i got $20 i can win to the end of the board walk.. 2miles away.. ive lost, won, guys look at me crazy.. i dont give a fuck.. i'm feeling good.. looking good.. its all good.
currently.. i'll go into the local hoods, and put money on games of 21 or straight 1-on-1. running has improved my stamina and endurance so much, i'm killing these 20-30somethings on the basketball court.
i'm even thinking of entreing a BJJ tournanent(white belt - late 40s - 50+ class), just with goal of not being submitted.. i'm not going to gas.. my opponents technique will get me .. but not my lack of endurance.
i love it.
i know guys try to flex and meet females at the gym.. but since i've been running, the real meet up spots are out at the popular running routes..
if you have some communication skills, a nice look, and can keep a good pace, its game over on those runs.
i dont know.. or maybe its just me.. i consistently get yoel romero, the rock, <insert any bald head tall brown skinned athletic guy>.. depending on what beer goggles(or potency of their weed edible) someone has on that day i suppose..