You probably are right I may well just be out of touch of what is actually good genetics even in terms of elite genetics there’s still tiers I think everyone who becomes a decent pro is elite but they’re still infinite levels away from say a Phil/ronnie etc
But in reality nearly 3 years in and
0-18 months spent changing everything every 5 minutes as so new to it but still managed to make my best progress to date
About 7/8 months of year 2 spent natural on bunk gear following totally incorrect diet and training for myself
Then and for the last 4 months everything’s been at the level where it needs to be for about another 2/3/4+ years to really make significant progress
So yes overall whilst there’s many freaks out there who are better I am definitely above average which is super fortunate
When I first started I didn’t even know about genetics and just trained believing if I dedicated myself long enough I’d accomplish it all. But then early on someone kept telling me I didn’t have the genetics and was wasting my time and there’s been a few since (albeit not many) . I think it’s about time I just went back to blissful ignorance of potential and whatever will be will be and enjoy the process without the end result being the main concern
Man, I will be honest. You can be mad at me or not. I’m just honest.
I work with people for about 15 years. In this time I learned a lot about how people think. I’m not saying I’m some amazing expert, but I’m pretty good at reading people, because I have contact with them every day. I see how they act and how they react. I’m also a good observer by nature.
So I will tell you this. I read your posts and you are always overthinking. Everyone already told you that you make things too complicated. You know it too. But the problem is something else.
You can get angry, but I will write it because nobody else will say it. I’m honest. People can like me or not, but I’m honest. I’m not trying to be a dick but if you want you can call me a dick, lol.
Anyway, you are looking for validation. All the time. Even when people tell you that you are not average and you don’t have average genetics, you still come back to the same topic. And it looks like you do it because you want people to lift you up and say again: “no bro, you have great genetics, you have this, you have that.” You want them to keep saying it. You want human approval.
Bro, slow down a bit, because I can see you think about this so much you probably can’t sleep at night.
We live in times where many people (I don’t say it as an insult) have real issues with themselves. They think too much and complicate too much, instead of being happy they are healthy. Two healthy arms, two healthy legs, you wake up, you open your eyes, you can see, you can do things. If you have health, you have everything.
There are people who don’t have that. People who can’t see, who don’t have arms or legs, who can’t stand up alone, who are disabled. If you were in that situation, you would understand how much you have right now.
So appreciate what you have. Stop searching for validation. You should know your own value.
That’s it from me. A bit long, I know. You can treat me like a dick if you want, but someone had to tell you.