Why men lie and cheat?

JesseJD · Dec 29, 2016

Markosterone said:
People cheat and lie for many reasons.
I myself have never cheated, but I am starting to think i have no other option IF i want an active sex life.
My lady and i have 2 kids (3 and 5), and we barely have sex anymore. I Love my family and my lady, i treat her good. I provide for us to have a good life and do my best with the business i am running.
I want to feel loved and make Love and sometimes i just need to fuck.
She is fine with just cuddling, never touches me in a sexual way.
This fuck me up inside my head, while she says she loves me, she never wants to make Love with me. And i always get rejected when i try to get intimate.

This is just one exempel i can give you, and i know im not alone in this.

Then you got the fucktards that crave for attention, in all ways. These types have issues IF you ask me..

Time for me to pick up the kids!
Cya!

I had the same period, but I found that is my fault. (Maybe its not your fault in you case). All the things that turn on my wife has gone, because I changed myself. Now, and because I love her, I try to go back to the basics.

Big Slice · Dec 31, 2016

^^^u make me sick.on your period yes.

Chrism329 · Dec 31, 2016

Used to

I used to lie and cheat. It was a way to cover up for my terrible self confidence without actually dealing with the issue

Muscle4fun · Dec 31, 2016

I think people lie and cheat because they don't care about their partner enough to be honest

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JimW92 · Jan 2, 2017

Most of men who cheat and lie still want to stay with their partner, but they just want to have more sex on the side. Our physical desires don’t die with our partnership.

robertfhub · Jan 2, 2017

No one stated the obvious. Evolution. Genetics and hormones. We needed to breed much more years ago. It's still in our blood.

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Saudi89 · Jan 2, 2017

Agree with the last 2 comments ^^

MetalPunk · Jan 16, 2017

Men are more likely to cheat with someone who is less attractive than their current relation. Women cheat up while men are more opportunistic when it comes to cheating.

fit2grow · Jan 16, 2017

Men cheat more out of sex drive. Women cheat more out of emotion or the lack of what there getting from there relationship. Its dumb either way find a new relationship. Life is to damn short to be in a miserable relationship

LiamDG · Dec 17, 2017

Well, people have differences. There are people who are happy together. And there are people whose sexual relations are at an impasse and they are looking for ways to fix it. I'm for honesty, of course, but it happens in different ways.

Cinder · Dec 17, 2017

Selfishness and loneliness.

A familiar fuck but not satisfied so they sneak around.
Also monogamy is usually forced rather then it be a feeling.

maldorf · Dec 19, 2017

tenny said:
new studies show.....that MORE women lie and cheat than men..

I think more women cheat and lie better than men do, more men get caught! I caught my ex wife cheating on me though. Took very little investigation, but I did have to do some digging. I think for the most part women are smarter about cheating and lying.

MAD_SCIENTIST · Dec 29, 2017

maldorf said:
I think more women cheat and lie better than men do, more men get caught! I caught my ex wife cheating on me though. Took very little investigation, but I did have to do some digging. I think for the most part women are smarter about cheating and lying.

Hi Maldorf...what made you suspect that there was something going on? Was she sorry that she cheated? What was her reasoning to go cheat? Thank you in advance.
Take care.
MS

hanquin · Dec 29, 2017

Chrism329 said:
I used to lie and cheat. It was a way to cover up for my terrible self confidence without actually dealing with the issue

i used to be a cheater also, for a number of reasons.
- i was immature, and in a relationship where i couldn't stand the girl but felt i couldn't break up b/c friends, family, etc
- i had no respect for her or myself
- the more i did it, the more i couldn't stand myself 'but couldn't stop'
- my marriage now (been together almost 10yrs) she has intimacy issues, is addressing them, but in no hurry to do so and like the guy who said he has to get his wife drunk to do it, same here
- however cheating is out of the question, sex is no longer AS important as it once was
- i couldn't imagine betraying her, i trust her/she trusts me more than anyone
- it's taken me yrs for her to build this trust in me, it would absolutely devastate her if i broke it, couldn't do that to her
- i couldn't live w/ myself if i did. back when i was a cheater, hated everything about my dishonest self (finally broke it off w/ her after 4 yrs)
- therapy and patience is the best solution. sometimes that doesn't even help
- my wife may be 'sexually hands-off' (for the most part) but she's my best friend. i can't imagine trying to find another wife out there that wants to fuck more, is as cool as she is and still puts up w/ my idiosyncrasies as well
- just whack off to porn. done.

j2048b · Dec 31, 2017

maldorf said:
I think more women cheat and lie better than men do, more men get caught! I caught my ex wife cheating on me though. Took very little investigation, but I did have to do some digging. I think for the most part women are smarter about cheating and lying.

Because beneath it all tbh 100% most women dont have hearts anymore, nor do they value respect or the word love,
That is only a word now tossed about from mouth to mouth, it has no meaning any longer, and yes they are smarter because they really dont care, its like a switch turns on, they go fuck, then the switch turns off, they bury it deep in their subconscious like it was a dream and only reopen that subconscious when they want to, they are craft, they get around (beastie boys) and i wouldnt be suprised if every woman alive hasnt done it at least 1 time thruought their lives, really im amazed at how their hearts, subconscious and lack of any type of loyalty has gone down the shitter, and how they dont really value the meaning of love, as.its only the fake ass love they see in the movies and on tv, which is a fantasy, which draws them towards it, and yet they dont feel this real love when its payin for their shopping sprees, house, car ect..... they really have as a whole lost their moral compass, yet they would rather fantasize with the shit on tv and movies due to how their mental illness has increased as a whole thruought their gender, .....

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el hereje · Dec 31, 2017

I think women cheat just as much as men do and they do it for the same reasons. They see a guy they want to have sex with, that simple. No complex emotional BS just straight up want to fuck somebody else.

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