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Is Jerry Springer still around, if so, he can find a couple of interesting folks for his show in this thread
Best way i know to put it is: If you haven't walked in their shoes, then withhold judging. Each of has had different life experiences that causes us to see things perhaps different than others or most.
Personally, my ex and i grew apart and i ignored her, for the most part, and her own shortcomings and self worth issues led to infidelity. It hurt, we have 3 kids, so we went the route of counseling and working on our marriage. In the end, it just didn't work, divorce SUCKS but it was a propellant to get me to get my act together, end result, i'm a much better man for it. We've actually got a great parenting relationship, forgiveness is a necessary function for happiness, IMO, not to mention Mom and Dad not fighting and besmirching each other is BEST for the children...
Best way i know to put it is: If you haven't walked in their shoes, then withhold judging. Each of has had different life experiences that causes us to see things perhaps different than others or most.
Personally, my ex and i grew apart and i ignored her, for the most part, and her own shortcomings and self worth issues led to infidelity. It hurt, we have 3 kids, so we went the route of counseling and working on our marriage. In the end, it just didn't work, divorce SUCKS but it was a propellant to get me to get my act together, end result, i'm a much better man for it. We've actually got a great parenting relationship, forgiveness is a necessary function for happiness, IMO, not to mention Mom and Dad not fighting and besmirching each other is BEST for the children...
