What's the deal with all of the guys talking shit about women? I've been cheated on, yes. But I don't blame the entire sex because I dated a slut. I learned from that relationship and moved on and eventually met my wife. My wife is great! We have our arguments, but we have great communication in our marriage, which is key. My in-laws hide shit from each other and have been married for 30 yrs, they are fucking miserable, because they always hide shit, they are beyond in debt due to shopping and gambling addictions. Would I forgive my wife if she cheated on me, I don't know, it would be hard. Would I carry hatred for women, no.
I don't know why you consider this guy "weak" for forgiving his wife and trying to work their marriage out. Being weak would be to walk away and just let it go, at least he's fighting. When one spouse does something, the other spouse does play a pivitol role in the reasoning why. His bodybuilding may have been too self-centered for her, she felt she wasn't getting any love/attention from him. We don't know these things, so to call this guy a pussy and weak is very immature. I actually commend him. Why, because all the other "big tough" guys are the contributing factor to the degredation of the family. When times get tough or you have to face adversity, you just leave?! I guess that's why the divorce rate is above 50% nowadays. Fuck working on things, just bail, it's easier