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- Aug 13, 2005
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Well I've been off the map for quite a while. Moved to a new city at the beginning of March for a better job and finally got internet set up.
My ex has been stringing me along. I doubt it was intentional, but it doesn't really matter. She came for a visit three weeks ago and we had a wonderful romantic time along with the whole nine yards. But nothing changes. so...
This last weekend, I left her a voicemail (wasn't able to reach her, but I wanted to say my piece at that time) letting her know that I can't be just friends with her and to stop calling / emailing me. I figure completely separation is what I need. I have already made it to the stage of knowing that I will be just fine, but my emotions are lagging a little bit behind. The separation will give my emotions time to catch up.
BigO - Inspiring story. We'll see what the future holds, but I'm not going to worry about it.
fajitas - thanks for that website. Great information there. I went on quite a few dates with various women due to that information. Great way to remember that there are so many great people out there and a great relationship is just a bit of chemistry away.
alexmet - I don't know about you, but I actually started dating older woman (not in their mid 20's) because I wanted someone who knows want they wanted. I think most of us have had our wild times and I think it is good for us to do so. Otherwise you will end up always thinking the grass on the other side is always greener. Oh, I'm just about to ramble so I think I will cut myself off.
Damn - this is a good group of people. lol - I'll be lurking around the board learning more and more!
My ex has been stringing me along. I doubt it was intentional, but it doesn't really matter. She came for a visit three weeks ago and we had a wonderful romantic time along with the whole nine yards. But nothing changes. so...
This last weekend, I left her a voicemail (wasn't able to reach her, but I wanted to say my piece at that time) letting her know that I can't be just friends with her and to stop calling / emailing me. I figure completely separation is what I need. I have already made it to the stage of knowing that I will be just fine, but my emotions are lagging a little bit behind. The separation will give my emotions time to catch up.
BigO - Inspiring story. We'll see what the future holds, but I'm not going to worry about it.
fajitas - thanks for that website. Great information there. I went on quite a few dates with various women due to that information. Great way to remember that there are so many great people out there and a great relationship is just a bit of chemistry away.
alexmet - I don't know about you, but I actually started dating older woman (not in their mid 20's) because I wanted someone who knows want they wanted. I think most of us have had our wild times and I think it is good for us to do so. Otherwise you will end up always thinking the grass on the other side is always greener. Oh, I'm just about to ramble so I think I will cut myself off.
Damn - this is a good group of people. lol - I'll be lurking around the board learning more and more!
Sigmund Roid said:I don't have a lot to add. If you believe you are being treated with disrespect or in a manner that you would not treat someone else. I might count myself lucky that this woman was not part of my quality world. I'd remove her from that picture in your mind. Luckily, I know how the story ends. You'll find another nice girl who appreciates you and is a better fit for your personality to share your life with!