Confidence is key. I actually prefer a curvy woman sexually. I am just not attracted to a lot of these fit chicks. Visually I am, but I do not get stimulated the same at the end of the day, Idk why lol. Like I said though, confidence! If she is a little thick but confident it is still very sexy. I dated a fit chick and she was obsessed, had no sex drive and had a lot of issues with self confidence. It was too much. I have enough of a strict diet, schedule, training regimen, I can’t deal with hers too! I train my girl now when she goes and it just works. If she was a confident fit chick, it would work too.