Ive had a very different life than a lot of people. things like dating or sexual conquest are so old and familiar to me that i have no desire. Im late 20s, healthy and enjoy a good porn vid but i turn down girls and women politely every time.
I have old friends that i call occasionally and a lot of my other friends have gotten married/gf/kids/career and dont have much time or desire to hang like we used to. Basically never.
I signed up for a few dating sites just to see whats out there. I find myself hitting 'next' the entire time. I meet and chat w women through work or randomness in life but only always under the assumption we'll never see each other again.
I 'friend zone' myself on purpose and i cant remember the last time ive pursued anybody. Sometimes i miss legit passion but im pretty numb and realize all the external factors first as to why re: fleeting romance
A lot of it is knowing that as a bit of an eccentric and out-of-the-box person, i have little to nothing in common with most people and they are more comfortable just being acquainted. im cool with that
I dont have a facebook profile. My closest friends and i just text or call pretty rarely. I dont have a tv, never have as an adult. I really dislike group thought and actions and generally just flank the 'crowd'
Being a very untraditional person, and based on experiences both personal and of friends/acquaintances ive come to hate the idea of marriage and even traditional relationships. Sometimes i feel the same about friendships with people i dont yet know well.
Sometimes i get bored. And of course sometimes lonely. But i cherish peace, freedom and solitude more than enough to make up for it
I dont want regrets, but i guess i cant regret something i didnt want anyway.
Since its a first question, i am currently depressed (seasonal, economic, genetic factors) but i have had these characteristics for a long time even those times that im really loving life
If this says anything, i havent had sex in 6 months and the last few times were with an old friend/flame. Im getting the feeling she wants more of life and to move on. So zero prospects now and no ambition.
Is anybody here similar?
I have old friends that i call occasionally and a lot of my other friends have gotten married/gf/kids/career and dont have much time or desire to hang like we used to. Basically never.
I signed up for a few dating sites just to see whats out there. I find myself hitting 'next' the entire time. I meet and chat w women through work or randomness in life but only always under the assumption we'll never see each other again.
I 'friend zone' myself on purpose and i cant remember the last time ive pursued anybody. Sometimes i miss legit passion but im pretty numb and realize all the external factors first as to why re: fleeting romance
A lot of it is knowing that as a bit of an eccentric and out-of-the-box person, i have little to nothing in common with most people and they are more comfortable just being acquainted. im cool with that
I dont have a facebook profile. My closest friends and i just text or call pretty rarely. I dont have a tv, never have as an adult. I really dislike group thought and actions and generally just flank the 'crowd'
Being a very untraditional person, and based on experiences both personal and of friends/acquaintances ive come to hate the idea of marriage and even traditional relationships. Sometimes i feel the same about friendships with people i dont yet know well.
Sometimes i get bored. And of course sometimes lonely. But i cherish peace, freedom and solitude more than enough to make up for it
I dont want regrets, but i guess i cant regret something i didnt want anyway.
Since its a first question, i am currently depressed (seasonal, economic, genetic factors) but i have had these characteristics for a long time even those times that im really loving life
If this says anything, i havent had sex in 6 months and the last few times were with an old friend/flame. Im getting the feeling she wants more of life and to move on. So zero prospects now and no ambition.
Is anybody here similar?
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