I know it sounds weird, but when you're used to being treated like crap, unappreciated, etc. it's actually hard to accept when a guy is legit being nice to you. I find myself throwing my guard up like crazy. Anyone else ever experience this?
I know it sounds weird, but when you're used to being treated like crap, unappreciated, etc. it's actually hard to accept when a guy is legit being nice to you. I find myself throwing my guard up like crazy. Anyone else ever experience this?
This is a gay dude posting as a girl to lure meatheads into pm'ing him. You have been warned!
Almost all hot women loved being treated like shit. I've never had a woman leave me forever for cheating on her, or treating her like shit on the bottom of my shoe.......but I have had women leave me because I genuinely went out of my way to care for them and they lost respect for me.
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It's immature women (or girls I should say) like the OP who ruin things for the genuine good women out there who do appreciate a nice guy and want to be respected. You think us guys like treating y'all like garbage? ? Not really...we just wanna get laid.
I know it sounds weird, but when you're used to being treated like crap, unappreciated, etc. it's actually hard to accept when a guy is legit being nice to you. I find myself throwing my guard up like crazy. Anyone else ever experience this?
Your full of shit. Any hot woman can have a guy of their choice. Why would they pick a loser like you? I bet you don't even have a girlfriend.
Your full of shit. Any hot woman can have a guy of their choice. Why would they pick a loser like you? I bet you don't even have a girlfriend.
Some pretty harsh responses here. angel617, you probably have attracted "bad boys" or a-holes for most of your dating life and now you found a guy that's probably actually a decent guy. It would be good for you to try to work it out with him and work toward learning to trust while you're still young (I assume you're young).
If these patterns go on too long, you will find yourself at a much later age looking back and string of hurtful or abusive relationships that never went anywhere.
Don't fall into that pattern. You are worth a good person and you deserve a good relationship. Don't settle or fall into anything less.
My first line of advice is as follows. Don't come to an unhealthy place looking for input and/or advice on your health.
Moving on, yes, I have found myself in a position similar to yours. I was born and raised extremely poor. The very long story abridged is that when I found myself reaching for better things in life, I was not prepared for the long acclimation process to a completely foreign society. I didn't know how to trust or even love properly. I certainly didn't think that I deserved love. I wasn't emotionally marred or socially inept, merely unfamiliar and untrained in the proper mental and emotional responses required to maintain a healthy life and relationship(s). These mundane, basic functions of most peoples everyday life escaped my experience. Beyond that, I was simply never taught.