My wife isnt in the lifestyle. Married for three years in June, been together for 6 years. She does cardio and will train in her own style with weights three days a week, for herself and bc she want to be healthy for me and our child, but by no means is in it.
I couldnt ask for a better woman though. she supports me 100 % in what i do and when times are hard for me dieting or just having a down week, she picks me up. when she can tell im tired and worn out from dieting and training and 60 hour work weeks. she will suprise me with a fridge full of my meals, cooked, weighed out and numbered.
She has never asked me to skip a workout for her. she goes to expos with me and sits through shows with me. Although shes not in the lifestyle you would think she is at a show. she knows the guys names and she likes to guess how they will place lol knows all the poses.
She brutally honest with me too, shell be like babe, time to hit a mini cut for a few weeks.... love her