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Any time you've been with someone for more than a one night stand, how many become bored? If you overcame it, how did you do it?
This just means you need to experiment until you find your 'kink'Any time you've been with someone for more than a one night stand, how many become bored? If you overcame it, how did you do it?
my woman will do whatever i want, no questions asked (except maybe a threesome, that's unchartered territory and could give put out red flags). It's just i have this problem, getting bored and less interested seeing the same person naked and fucking them again and again. it's my problem. it has nothing to do with how i feel about her as a person. it's always happened except once. it had nothing to do with appearance either. it's a terrible problem to have. everything else in our relationship is great.I always just talk with the girls about what I want or desire out of sex.. some ladies just dont know.... so I tell them. If they cant provide the P the way I want then i i pull away too. just means you're nor sexually compatible. Some will listen like hell and will be on fire.... problem solved.. least for me
i guess one of the things is once they're naked the mystery is gone. Wonder if the shoe has been on the other foot in regards to me. Anyway, only once in my life it did not happen. The sex kept being awesome (at least for one of us LOL). I ended up getting dropped in that one, go figure. What did you do to solve the problem?Yes I’ve sort of have this happen with all of my girlfriends. Once they are true friends I have more trouble thinking of them sexually like I did in the beginning.
i couldn't ask for a better partner which is why i'd never fuck around on my partner. i couldn't do that to her. i just wish i didn't have this problem and i agree with you. no way is monogamy natural, but then we do a lot of things that aren't natural and we survive and make the best of it.Many if not most would argue that monogamy is not natural. I mean as men were wired to go out and spread our seed as often and everywhere we can. Modern society has changed that notion and so we’re supposed to practice self-control.
I lost the love of my life, a woman any of you’d give your left nut to Have because I couldn’t control myself for a short period of time. Life lesson learned.
I have a friends with benefits arrangement with a hot girl who cuts my hair and she’s a professional stylist. We keep the situation real. She’s the first girl sexually that I haven’t become bored with because she’s open to pretty much anything. She likes women and she likes threesomes with another hot girl. And who was I to turn that down? She had never been to a strip club and so she had me take her one night and I bought her lap dances, she picked the second one for herself to take home. It was hot! She likes to experiment, she’s submissive and she knows how to keep me interested coming back for more.
It’s funny how relationships in life works that way. She’s the one who satisfies me sexually and keeps me from looking for others, but there’s no way I would fall madly in love with this girl either.
I think the key is to try and find both, if that’s possible.
i guess one of the things is once they're naked the mystery is gone. Wonder if the shoe has been on the other foot in regards to me. Anyway, only once in my life it did not happen. The sex kept being awesome (at least for one of us LOL). I ended up getting dropped in that one, go figure. What did you do to solve the problem?
how long have you been together?interesting topic here. Im sleeping with a girl now who is very good in bed but its like she is shy around me unless we fucking....Its kinda weird LOL. She says she really likes me but wont open up. ill just go with it I guess.
Defo true....Not true. You even get tired of the hot ones crap. Find a new fuck hole