One year? That's usually a big red flag that she's not into you ( I'd get if it was only monthly). My dad cheated on my mom after she wouldn't screw him for a year after 2008. Honestly I see both sides and don't blame either side for how there relationship ended.Defo true....
Me and my wifey don't have sex since almost 1y, but we love each others also because we share also a lot of different interests..... tbh this situation is becoming hard for me....
But she entered menopause early (she is older than me, she is 43) and i think it is a tough moment for her hormones wise... So i will just take it for it is and wait for better moments.... we live together since 6y and i think it's just a momentary "down".... i hope...
LOL.. yeah I guess that still "hol"dsMy wife is my partner, friend, mother of my kids but she's still a fuck hole.
I’ve been in a “one night stand“ with the same gal for 37 years. When it comes to women or life in general, never sweat the little things and everything is a little thing.
You dive face first in that ass? Tongue fuck that shit box
Do you kiss your mother with that mouth? How about some manners as you’re commenting on his spouse.
I used to dive face first in my wife's ass but after two kids I'm good. She used to love it when I tongue punched the ole fart box. Now there's no foreplay. She climbs on, gets her nut or 2, waits til I get mine then we carry on about our day.
I've read quite a few of your posts. You piss and moan more than a woman. Pull your skirt down, Nancy, your little blood spot is showing.
Lame. You're soft as fuck
One year? That's usually a big red flag that she's not into you ( I'd get if it was only monthly). My dad cheated on my mom after she wouldn't screw him for a year after 2008. Honestly I see both sides and don't blame either side for how there relationship ended.
She should started a while ago. Hell mine is 29 and I got her on hrt. Best of luck hopefully it's just a phase.I am tolerating all this because it's a crucial moment for her mind and body.
Early menopause for women is a real mess.
I don't think that being HARD on her on this particular moment will help our relationship at all...
Before loosing her period forever we had sex regularly.
She started recently HRT so i hope that everything will come back like before, if not, then it will be time to look for another partner.
I've been with approximately 30 different women in my life and in my experience it just boils down to chemistry. Some of those were one night stands, some were multiple times and 3 of them were long term relationships. The ones that lacked chemistry with me, I can hardly remember the details of their face, body, their name even.Any time you've been with someone for more than a one night stand, how many become bored? If you overcame it, how did you do it?
Get back to us when your thoughts shift more to her or at least equally to her as they are about your own happiness. I couldn't imagine considering myself in love if every calculation I made had to do with myself and not at least equally her.this topic is always in the back of my mind too. Even hot girls you can get tired of fucking after a while. Whats keeps a good relationships together is good sex but also the chemistry and communication you have together. My girl makes me feel fulfilled and we are really happy when together. But there are times where I am not sure If I will be able to be satisfied sexually in the future and wonder if I would just be happy being a bachelor and having short term relationships, maybe some prostitutes on the side. But theres a part of me that feel like I need to keep this going with her and she may bring real happiness to me in the future with a family and see our kids open presents on christmas and shit like that. My fear is being single and one day wanting those family things and not finding someone else that would make me feel the way she does, its a hard find out there.
Banging randoms gets boring too.this topic is always in the back of my mind too. Even hot girls you can get tired of fucking after a while. Whats keeps a good relationships together is good sex but also the chemistry and communication you have together. My girl makes me feel fulfilled and we are really happy when together. But there are times where I am not sure If I will be able to be satisfied sexually in the future and wonder if I would just be happy being a bachelor and having short term relationships, maybe some prostitutes on the side. But theres a part of me that feel like I need to keep this going with her and she may bring real happiness to me in the future with a family and see our kids open presents on christmas and shit like that. My fear is being single and one day wanting those family things and not finding someone else that would make me feel the way she does, its a hard find out there.
i purposely do not put myself in situations where i would/could cheat. i'm not willing to do that to my partner, not judging anyone who does. i understand why it happens, even to people who love each other. however, not being motivated or turned on to have sex with my partner is also a problem. i think she has more interest than me and maybe doesn't understand why i'm not jumping on her. i suppose i could tell her but i don't think any good will come of that, only hurt feelings. she knows my past and how i enjoyed having one night stands. again, i'm just not sure what to do. i'm a guy. i fantasize and wish for sex. it's just not exciting when it's always the same woman. i wish there was an easy solution. thank you for any and all replies.