Been with my wife for 12 years. During this time I have learned she has no passion for anything, no hobbies, no real interests, and needs me to stimulate every conversation. In doing so I'm stuck talking about my interests and have to make all the decisions in our relationship. When I do talk to her she is disinterested and interupts me frequently to task me with something or say something she seems more important then says ok continue. In the last 2 years she has gained 80 pounds and all she does is eat and watch reality TV. A few years ago we agreed that we would be health conscious and make an effort to stay fit and she just doesnt seem to care. The only time she initiates a conversation is if she needs something from me or has a problem with something that I'm doing. Now I try to avoid her because I cant carry a genuine conversation with her and the physical attraction is gone. I have addressed my concerns to her and she just doesnt seem to give a shit. We are too vastly different people. I have worked my ass off providing for her and was in the military deployed while she was unemployed. Flash forward I get out and have saved a bunch of money and go to school full time for a year while she is working. She has the audacity to say that I am living off her and that I am doing nothing all day. I have come to a point where idk what to do. I have opened about my concerns but I dont see any other resolution but divorce. I have never had a genuine conversation with her because she claims she doesnt understand what I'm talking about and she just replies to everything I say with uh huh, ok, i see. We've been to marriage counseling and it was a joke. I feel like I'm wasting my life stuck being unhappy. I have laid out that I am not happy to her and she says she wants to stay together but she doesnt put forth any effort. I feel like I'm at the end of my rope.
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