Here is some advice to all you single guys. STAY SINGLE. No reason to get married especially if you do not plan on having children.
Now for the married guys that think they are the exception to divorce. The divorce rate is 50 %. Would you put $ in a bank if you knew there was a 50 % chance of losing it ??
I thought it wouldn't happen to me. It did.
If you are foolish enough to get married or remarried make sure you keep some of the assests you worked for out of your name or hidden. Never mention anything about PENSIONS or 401 K plans. Have a private Email address your spouse does not know about and have the statements sent there and NOT to your home. You should also change the beneficiary to your kids or other relatives in case you die. I got screwed but not totally
What I found is that woman after 20 years of marraige go thru menopause and go crazy and if their friends are getting divorced it makes it even worse.
I felt that I had to write this message as a PUBLIC SERVICE to all men.
take care,
Scott