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Ughh hopefully soon i can figure it out. I hate when i think into to much cause its hard to dealing with it. We have a history. But hopefully we can figure something out if not then ya white flag thrown in.:banghead:
she's gotten comfy and complacent in your relationship.. she doesn't think you will leave her.
she doesn't appreciate you sufficiently... that's literally what her inaction means
you are not the one who should be walking on eggshells
let's be real..she's a 41 year old with 3 kids... she should be appreciating the fuck out of you.
Why would a women stick around and put herself and Me through all this crap? We have broken up before over dumb shit. But we get back together. Everyone tells me I need a side chick. And knowing me I would feel guilty I did get one.
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you are not the one who should be walking on eggshells
let's be real..she's a 41 year old with 3 kids... she should be appreciating the fuck out of you.
married men are just ok getting no pussy I guess.
Will see were this goes. Eventually I will get over it if this continues she will still let me fuck her but I put on all the work in lol she doesn't do shit.
Also ran tren for a long time in 2016 which was hard I didn't realize how paranoid I was becoming and how irritable I was. I'm naturally already like that but it made it 20x worse. I stop tren later that year and things were getting better going 2017 things got a lot better still small arguments over social media I don't follow her on any of that crap anymore. In October 2017 things were getting rough with the sex. She wasnt into it anymore or if we fought she wouldn't want to have sex cause I was a dick. There is a chance during that time she mite of cheated on me. But its to hard to say or prove. I haven't really caught her doing anything bad. One of the things I hate the most about her is she really chatty on social media and talks to everyone its so annoying.
I've put the pressure on her to tell me if she has cheated. Given her plenty of opportunity to. But nothing she says she hasn't.
I'm not perfect ive hooked up with other girls. She knows about them. Never have had sex with any of them probably should have tho lol.
Will see were this goes. Eventually I will get over it if this continues she will still let me fuck her but I put on all the work in lol she doesn't do shit.
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Smart man. Im trying to rebuild what was lost I guess. Trying work things out this year I have made huge changes but still the progression is so slow in the relationship I didn't realize it was this bad until last october. I'm like damn I'm getting older need to figure it out quick.You just explained her lack of interest, you can't be an irritable dick, you can't be the way it seems "everyone is" or whatever comes naturally, you can't be "fair" and "equal." You have to do and be much, much more than that to make a relationship work. I know the counter-argument, you don't want to sacrifice everything for someone who doesn't care as much but that is no way to love.
the benefits outweigh the costs for her.
dude, she's a single mom in her 40's... if you leave, she is pretty much fucked. she needs to understand and respect that.
you've fluffed up her ego waaaaaay too much.
sounds like you care about her way more than she cares about you.
women tend to only see their own wants, needs, and problems...this is known as 'solipsism'
add 3 kids into the equation, and you are so far on the backburner that you need to make a massive bonfire just to be noticed.
no, they aren't
they just have no choice. they signed a legal document with the state.
yeah, that's really common
and lol @ guys saying she's fucking someone on the side.. she's 41 with 3 kids, she has different priorities other than keeping OP (the man she is supposed to love) happy.
Lol I was reading this to her [emoji23][emoji23][emoji859] she agrees with youCertain women do not appreciate an affectionate man in life, they vow to the opposite. I have dealt with this twice in life, but set certain red lines and deadlines to not let things trespass, once it got too close, I just packed without giving any notice and left, considering that I have given dialogue enough opportunities.
One of the greatest feelings when they start writing and calling you for months and leaving voice messages with their cries begging you to at least answer the phone.
In your case it might work, it might not, the main thing is that you will get out of this hell, you are 31 and you want to have your OWN kids, and you will have plenty of women with better social environment in your path, and with better readiness for a healthy relationship.
Lol I was reading this to her [emoji23][emoji23][emoji859] she agrees with you ��
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