thanks everybody.... You guys are all like family and I appreciate the support. Found even more evidence of even more years of cheating on a SIM card from one of her old cell phones. This woman damaged many lives and broke many hearts.
Unfortunately, I discovered a friend of mine's old phone number in her contacts. She had only met him once when we all went out to dinner back in 2007 when we were doing the long distance relationship thing. There is only one reason she would have that number and he was quite the player himself at that time. I remember him being amazed that I was a one woman man. He is a top level national competitor and was convinced that most bodybuilders had multiple women just because he did. First time I have ever had a friend do me like that.
LOL... more than likely I will run into him at the North Americans. If he plans on getting on stage he has some explaining to do. He has led a pretty sheltered life and I have not so I don't think he has any idea what he is in for.
Don't get me wrong, I don't have anything against any of the countless other guys she has fucked around with, but you don't do that to a friend and every guy on the face of the earth knows that.
On the more cheerful side I have re-kindled a connection from long ago that never went as far as it could. She and I did so many cool things together and the only reason it didn't go further at the time was because I was already committed to my ex (big mistake). Anyhow, here it is 14 years later and we are both ready to see what we missed out on so many years ago...
I have told the ex goodbye and good riddance and have moved on.