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THIS!^^^^^
Chris I've been there done that, Just what your going thru years ago, took me a LONG time but I learned how to be myself, I AM a nice guy but it didnt help me much, try to find the line between your nice guy and your manly macho bad boy side, believe me when I found that it was amazing how much more women wanted to date me, and the whole BBing thing, FORGET it, DONT put that on your online profile, they will IMMEDIATELY stereotype you as a dumb,selfish, meathead, and they wont respond. I talked to many girls from POF and MATCH and they all said they get HUNDREDS of guys weekly sending them emails, they told me they take a QUICK look at the pics and a SCAN of the profile and say yes or no in seconds! Bodybuilding is something that you slowly share with them AFTER you've been with them a while and they ASK about why your so built, beleive me you have to let them know who you are somewhat and see that your a good caring compassionate guy BEFORE you tell them about it, hell I never told any of em, I waited til we were about to get down and I would start getting undressed and they would be like "DAMN you got a hot body!" The sex would be great cuz they were turned on by who I was and how I looked, then afterward I would say ( only if they asked) that I did bodybuilding as a hobby.
bro, you know i love your posts, right? We agree on a lot, but dude, you mentioned gym, bodybuilding, and powerlifting in there at least 7 times each. Thats a total of like what 18-21 references to working out. Working out and being built is not who we are, its what we do. Tell women about yourself. Not your hobbies like that but the things that make you, you. It comes through in your posts that you have a sensitive and caring side(no homo) and most bb'ers are big old teddy bears...LOL. Anyway, just drop some gym references. If you want some help, hit me up man.
-osiris
Chris I've been there done that, Just what your going thru years ago, took me a LONG time but I learned how to be myself, I AM a nice guy but it didnt help me much, try to find the line between your nice guy and your manly macho bad boy side, believe me when I found that it was amazing how much more women wanted to date me, and the whole BBing thing, FORGET it, DONT put that on your online profile, they will IMMEDIATELY stereotype you as a dumb,selfish, meathead, and they wont respond. I talked to many girls from POF and MATCH and they all said they get HUNDREDS of guys weekly sending them emails, they told me they take a QUICK look at the pics and a SCAN of the profile and say yes or no in seconds! Bodybuilding is something that you slowly share with them AFTER you've been with them a while and they ASK about why your so built, beleive me you have to let them know who you are somewhat and see that your a good caring compassionate guy BEFORE you tell them about it, hell I never told any of em, I waited til we were about to get down and I would start getting undressed and they would be like "DAMN you got a hot body!" The sex would be great cuz they were turned on by who I was and how I looked, then afterward I would say ( only if they asked) that I did bodybuilding as a hobby.