How To Be Single? (stupid I know)

[Performance Based]

how are you getting all these dates? match.com or are you approaching girls for dates every day? Impressive that you are able to have so many. Clearly it means you are attractive

Both match and just talking to women at the gym. I've gotten a few "I always wondered if you would ever say hi, I always see you smiling at me" and one "what took you so long to say hi".

I honestly had no idea how easy this was, being shy has been the biggest waste of time of my life so far!

 

[TNH]

being shy has been the biggest waste of time of my life so far!

I agree. I have always been shy, and when I manage to break out of my shell, it feels amazing. I am in a long term relationship, but shyness is a major roadblock in business networking, making friends, etc.

 

[AlphaMaleDawg]

Both match and just talking to women at the gym. I've gotten a few "I always wondered if you would ever say hi, I always see you smiling at me" and one "what took you so long to say hi".

I honestly had no idea how easy this was, being shy has been the biggest waste of time of my life so far!

niceee I think you just inspired me to talk to hot girls I see at the gym

 

[Performance Based]

Been talking to one girl now for around 3 weeks, hanging out for two. Just dropped her off at the airport. Her friends having her baby tonight, don't get to see her until the 14th at the earliest. I already miss her.

Seriously falling for her already lol. Physically shes exactly my type. Short, petite, latina, long black hair, athletic build. 5'0 maybe 95-110 pounds. Educated, traveled, good steady job, high pay. Great girl.

Heres the texts from the other night lol, she lives about 30 min away she came over hung out all day then she went out for happy hour with a few friends that live near me. Had plans to take her out for a nice night when she got back

"papi can we just stay in tonight? I just want to be in bed with you im so tired"

"of course baby"

"ok I know you wanted to go out I promise I will make you just as happy"

"babe you don't have to do anything for me"

"I want to you deserve it your too sweet. Is it ok if I stay tonight so I can make you breakfast in the morning"


I wake up in the middle of the night to her googling how to make eggs benedict for me lol. Apparently I kept rolling around in my sleep too, she would try and pull me back over to lay on her again and obviously someone 100 pounds isn't going to be able to. Shed get up out of bed come to the other side and rearrange me ontop of her lol.




Im seriously falling for this girl, not even playing one bit. I don't know if its because there was nothing good other than old memories with my ex and just the drastic difference or if this girl really is that sweet. Just dropped her off at the airport, her friends having her baby tonight apparently. Picking her up thursday.

Went to a movie earlier today, she folded up all the seats so she could lay on me lol. I ended up getting wood, she seriously just played with it through my jeans to the point where I was going to pop. Unzips takes it in the mouth, swallows, chugs some water and randomly gets up with her purse and goes "papi I'll be right back". Come back and buys me a new bottle of water! Says she doesn't want me to be grossed out drinking out of the bottle.

WTF? I didn't know women like this existed. Very very loving, still a little shy with me, absolutely beautiful, educated (shes a nurse woohoo), makes good money, even got the "I am not asking you to be exclusive but I am telling you I have stopped talking to other guys completely because I want to see where this goes, I hope that the more time we spend together that you will want this to become exclusive. I'm not asking you to stop seeing anyone, just when your ready I am here for you".

WTF once again?

I have dates set up for tonight and tomorrow, and honestly I am just going to cancel them.

We were at the mall earlier today too, she tried on a dress that was more than she was willing to spend (she absolutely loved it) only 220$ so I paid for it while she was trying on other stuff. She MADE me return it, said thats too much to be spending on her especially so early in the relationship.

Once again WTF?



Question is, when you first start dating/talking to someone how often is normal to get to see them # of times a week? I don't want to come on too strongly, I like this girl ALOT so I don't want to run her off.

 

[animalsd]

I wouldn't cancel your dates... you're finally single after a horrible relationship, live it up, learn about different women, and enjoy yourself.

Don't throw all you eggs in one basket, experience them all.

 

[Performance Based]

Im realizing that, shes starting to play games with how often I get to see her. Have 5 dates set up between now and monday lol.

I hope she knocks it off, I know I should be out banging and having fun but this girl actually makes me happy.

 

[osiris]

DONT worry about how often is normal. Normal is overrated. You do what makes you happy chris.

If she makes you happy see where it goes. If you really like her that much, you aren't gonna want hard feelings later because you didn't stop seeing other chicks etc. I am not telling you to stop. I am telling you to go with what you feel.

I am happy for you bro!

 

[Performance Based]

I really had no idea how easy this whole dating thing is. I have done some math and it looks like 1/8th of everyone I hang out with seems to yield some sort of possible chemistry lol.

Ended up having a girl I've been talking to over last night, randomly texts me and says she can't sleep. Tell her to come over at 11PM and she does, drives 30 min! She literally just left. Never been with a white woman before (I am white), only ever hispanic or ethnic women. Sort of an interesting new experience!

Anyone else never able to finish the first time they have sex with someone new? She ended up cumming 10+ times over the night and literally did everything she possibly could to get me to after. I don't know if its performance anxiety or just being nervous with someone new but I have never been able to finish the first few times with someone new.

Ended up losing wood though, is that normal for period of prolonged arousal or is it an attraction thing as shes not my usual type?

Shes 5'8 130-140 pounds, beautiful face, literally PERFECT ass, very fit and tight, nice tits, knows what shes doing in bed. No real reason for me to loose wood.

Don't know if its a stupid question in regards to the prolonged arousal but I've never maintained an erection for 2+ hours so no idea.

 

[alan1973]

PMCCHRIS,
after I got my divorce from my first wife, I had some issues getting it up....felt weird and wrong to be with a nother woman.
since I have been married again, and my wife and i weren't talking for about a year, I had the opportunity to sleep with a woman in the same situation as I....I could not do it...that is...not with a condom...could not even keep it up in one. we finished with a good 69 and never saw her again. never strayed again...I am too emotionally involved with my wife to do that again. we get along much better now that we are communicating well again.

basically I wanted to say that performance issues after a break up are normal. it sometimes takes a while to sever the emotional ties.

 

[AlphaMaleDawg]

I really had no idea how easy this whole dating thing is. I have done some math and it looks like 1/8th of everyone I hang out with seems to yield some sort of possible chemistry lol.

Ended up having a girl I've been talking to over last night, randomly texts me and says she can't sleep. Tell her to come over at 11PM and she does, drives 30 min! She literally just left. Never been with a white woman before (I am white), only ever hispanic or ethnic women. Sort of an interesting new experience!

Anyone else never able to finish the first time they have sex with someone new? She ended up cumming 10+ times over the night and literally did everything she possibly could to get me to after. I don't know if its performance anxiety or just being nervous with someone new but I have never been able to finish the first few times with someone new.

Ended up losing wood though, is that normal for period of prolonged arousal or is it an attraction thing as shes not my usual type?

Shes 5'8 130-140 pounds, beautiful face, literally PERFECT ass, very fit and tight, nice tits, knows what shes doing in bed. No real reason for me to loose wood.

Don't know if its a stupid question in regards to the prolonged arousal but I've never maintained an erection for 2+ hours so no idea.

that is the worst feeling in the world. pure misery. Now when I go out for a night on the town, I always make sure to keep 10mg of cialis in my pocket in case I bring a girl home. Even if I don't need it, I don't wanna risk it so I take it anyway

 

[hellraiser27]

The best place to meet women is the internet.

I can't tell you the amount of success I have had going this route.

I have a steady girlfriend now for the past few years.

But before that, woah buddy.

Post a good pic of yourself. Say your looking for a good woman, and plan on checking your email ever hour.

 

[Performance Based]

Dating two girls now fairly seriously. Things are going well with the little latina and I am continuing to see the white girl. I am really shocked how easy this is.

Hanging out with a few random girls here and there but to be honest getting tired/annoyed with it. Have a pretty latina girl coming over tonight, going to cook dinner together. She already asked if its ok if she just wears her PJs over in case she spends the night lol.

 

[matt1164]

you are the man chris!

glad to see you rebounded from the break up! good things ahead for you I hope!

 

[JMAN86]

^^^^ same here.. confidence is key bro women can smell that shit..It's all about how u carry yourself.. Keep it up bro.. like i said in a different thread.. "remember you don't hunt beaver you trap it"

 

[AlphaMaleDawg]

any update? For some reason, it is entertaining watching you go from clueless to a don juan mega pimp in such a short period of time. keep up the good work

 

[Performance Based]

Been seeing the latina pretty frequently. Have a date set up tonight with a girl that owns her own personal training studio and lives a very simialar lifestyle as to mine. Only thing is she is hell bent against AAS. Apparently her ex wanna be MMA fighter took a ton of shit and got into alot of trouble.

So I would just hide it from her, a lesson I learned after my ex.

So seeing her tonight, then have a coffee date set up for tomorrow.

Its not so much going from clueless to knowing what your doing. Just finding your fuckin' balls and not being a pussy. Instead of saying "hey can I take you out to dinner" for instance going with "where am I taking you to dinner tomorrow".

Just having that confidence and not putting the pussy on the pedestal. Had one girl ask if I would care if she said she wasn't having any fun with me (we were actually having a good time)... told her to tell me because I don't like wasting my time... She came home with me later that night



Not going to lie though, I miss my ex to death I really do. I know it wouldnt be smart to be with her but god do I still miss her.

 

[msm2011]

PMCCHRIS, take a deep breath, relax and just be yourself. I'm sorry to hear of your last relationship but sounds like you're better off without her. Don't try to hard, just be yourself, when you least expect it, someone wonderful will come into your life.

 

[Performance Based]

I think someone finally has come into my life, we tried dating and it didn't really work out. But since then she has sort of turned into my best friend. Only reason why it didn't work out is she isn't really my type physically.

She isn't overweight at all, 5'7 about 150 pounds but pretty muscular. Shes trying to loose 10 pounds and if she did she would be just perfect and is looking into getting fake tits.

I am starting to develop some pretty strong emotions for her and legitimately care about her, I still don't think I am ready for something serious though, I am constantly seeing/sleeping with girls I meet and I think maybe I need to get this out of my system before I commit to something serious? But I want something serious so badly.

 

[TheSyndicate]

I know the feeling all too well. I'm on 30mg of Adderall (15mg 2x day) and if I don't take cialis or 3g of orthinine/orginine or some other vasodilator I cannot get it up to save my life. I embarrassing as hell.

 

[imagine]

ITs all in your heads !!!!

Over the years I have discovered the biggest sex organ in our bodies is our brain...Contrary to what "some" may think. To get our heads right, first one MUST take an inventory of what is holding you back. Everyone wants a future ...for a woman that is a man that is confident, successful, happy , great communicator, "gets" what she wants AND needs...Most of the time that has nothing to do with $$...its usually someone who is willing to take the time to see who she really is, we are all the same ...all we really want is validation. AND THIS BEGINS FROM WITHIN!!
What the woman can see from a mile away when you approach her is your lack of well being that comes though...Most people have it ..and her likely waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more then you !!!
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They are Ross Jeffries and Adam Gilad...
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