Fuuuuck bro I feel for you my dude….
Were your charges related to AAS? As I’m sure you know it’s extremely rare that they actually test for anabolics. When I got busted years back they threatened that they could test me but never did. What leading up to the UA makes you sure they’re testing you for AAS?
As for the girlfriend situation…. I’ll send some positive energy your way man, sounds like you’re getting hit all at once with some real shit….
yes i got raided with a lab allegedly but got charges knocked down to distribution and plead to a strike
thank you all for the support, this is a really tough time but IM looking it on the bright side and as a a blessing
ex just called me and asked for an explanation of all the mean shit I Texted her when I Was in a state of abandonment and despair late night.
I felt extremely bad and apologized and meant it, i asked her why she was calling and that it was a bit odd, she sounded very somber, slow, like she is on perc or something i know she got wisdom teeth all 4 pulled less than a week ago, and her dad died and left a bunch of meds this past year. she taking metformin and doesn't workout
there were some major deal breakers, she was sleeping in the same bed as her ex that she lives with with her daughter ( not related tohim just her daughter) and he helped her when she was running streets years ago in order to get custody back of her daughter, so she married him also for tax benefits etc cuz he retired navy
she still living with the guy and using his va loan for tax break etc, and told me earlier she slept on bed still because her dad died on the couch, i said i understand but you could have easily got a blow up mattress or slept in daughters room. too many holes in your story
and she was evasive about past, mentioned a few crazy ass gun involved episodes and gang shit, gun held to her, and she caught a case almost got caught driving with a guy who had a bunch of whatever
and then id ask for more info and she would be evasive, anyway, everyone's saying its a blessing in disguise, she was generous so its hard to call her a gold digger, what happened was my crazy ex posted a bad review about her on google under my login and she freaked out on me, so i tried out of altruism to call her office and explain who did it and who has my PC (the ex is in the industry and this is easily verifiable she has engaged in this behavior, I've even talked to a mod about her before doing crazy shit to get back at exs) anyway, then i got into argument with her boss that went sideways and she dumped me afterwards