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Aloha Bruddhas,
Long and short of it is that my marriage of 18 years is the final stage of divorce. I was fully committed to the marriage, my wife and partner. Taking steps, (workshops, retreats, counseling, etc) to work things out when we couldn't, for growth individually, and collectively. Yet, when it came down to it she finally recognized her doubt, fear and anger kept her from developing an open heart, to love me, feel and discover who she is. This is what she told me numerous times through the years.....
So, I had to accept her truth, as difficult as it was, I finally did. Let me tell you it was the best move I have made! I have sold my business I had in the bay area on terms of monthly payments for 2 years. Relocated back to Hawai'i in September. Moved into my 2/1 house in November, which sits on one acre, in a very quiet and lush area, about 40 minutes from Hilo. The pace of life is much slower. People are much friendlier, and take the time to look you in the eye and have conversations. Also getting established to do the work I was doing in the bay area here.
BTW, I recently met a woman from Sydney in a workshop I was in. She and I clicked like no other woman I have ever been with in my life. Beautiful inside and out. Intelligent, and spiritual. Plus she really appreciates me...
Anyway, It's good to be back with my PM "Ohana".
E malama pono a hui ho,
V
Long and short of it is that my marriage of 18 years is the final stage of divorce. I was fully committed to the marriage, my wife and partner. Taking steps, (workshops, retreats, counseling, etc) to work things out when we couldn't, for growth individually, and collectively. Yet, when it came down to it she finally recognized her doubt, fear and anger kept her from developing an open heart, to love me, feel and discover who she is. This is what she told me numerous times through the years.....
So, I had to accept her truth, as difficult as it was, I finally did. Let me tell you it was the best move I have made! I have sold my business I had in the bay area on terms of monthly payments for 2 years. Relocated back to Hawai'i in September. Moved into my 2/1 house in November, which sits on one acre, in a very quiet and lush area, about 40 minutes from Hilo. The pace of life is much slower. People are much friendlier, and take the time to look you in the eye and have conversations. Also getting established to do the work I was doing in the bay area here.
BTW, I recently met a woman from Sydney in a workshop I was in. She and I clicked like no other woman I have ever been with in my life. Beautiful inside and out. Intelligent, and spiritual. Plus she really appreciates me...
Anyway, It's good to be back with my PM "Ohana".
E malama pono a hui ho,
V
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