Anyone this classic line from Tommy Boy: "I can get a good look at a T-bone by sticking my head up a bull's ass, but I'd rather take a butcher's word for it."
I tend to be someone that has to learn things for myself rather than listen to others. Often, and not suprisingly, this equates to learning the lesson the hard way. For better or worse, that's my nature. I think what makes these warnings so hard is that nobody thinks something bad is going to happen to them until it does.
I have never really liked the bench press myself though, so that is one warning I have listened to. When I have done it, I have not had any issues with my pec, but my shoulder always hurts after (I'm sure my form isn't great). I got a slight tear in my posterior labrum last March and since then have avoided it entirely.
I have a question for Dante or Shelby or whoever else has an opinion. Do you think the bench press is dangerous for people of all strength levels, or just as people start pressing huge weights? I only ask because in the gyms I lift in, I see a ton of people using horrendous form on their presses, bouncing the weights, not using collars and having the weights fall off, tons of forced reps, etc, but I never see anyone get hurt. Thing is, most of these guys are using 65-155 pounds. Would you discourage everyone from benching, or just as guys get stronger? It seems to me that if it isn't a great chest exercise anyway, might as well play it safe and skip it, but I'm a bit curious about how you guys feel about the bench for weaker lifters?