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Hey guys. Idk where to post this, I just want replies cause I'm totally broken right now. I need to talk to level headed guys and that will help hopefully
My wife is leaving me. I'm 27, she is 22, it's Christmas night. We have been married for 1 year and a half.
She is my dream girl. I didn't think I'd ever land, let alone marry a women like her. She's not perfect, but neither am I. She is was I want, I do not want her to leave me. I feel like i need her love. We have so much fun and laughs together, she's very hot, and so sweet when she wants to be. I love her very much
This is what happened-
She has a TON of past relationship baggage. It's been affecting us since the first day we met. Her exs have lied to her for her whole life, they have been losers, cheater and drug addicts (there have been 2 exs)
This causes massive trust issues with us. She has never trusted me. And never will i am beginning to see. Iv never cheated on her, the absolute worst thing I have done is smoke weed a couple times, and a few cigarettes. She is very against this kind of thing. And is 99% of the reason she doesn't trust me (crazy right ??) she tells her self I'm always out trying to get fucked up and smoke....I drink like twice a year, and only smoke when I do that. I rarely smoke weed.
She's going out of town for a couple days with family, so I made movie plans with my brother (she hates him cause he smokes and is kinda a "low life" but he's a great guy truthfully. Well she found out and went ape shit. And is now leaving me, saying this is the icing on the cake.....she says she doesn't get excited when I txt her anymore, I'm going nowhere in life, and I'm very mentally dumb. I am extremely hurt by all this
I'm a good guy, treat her well, love her with all my heart. And now she's leaving me because she can't trust me ever she says....
Now does this sound as crazy as I think ? Am I being a total pussy letter her control me like this ? She acts like the smallest things are the end of the world...I also have suspicion that she is bipolar. Some of her family would agree with this.
Sorry for the ramble, it's very hard to put this into a single post. I just need help from my brothers on here. I feel like this is a crazy nightmare. But it's real. I love my wife and would gladly die for her. And I'd still stay with her if she doesn't leave. But how can anyone live like this?
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My wife is leaving me. I'm 27, she is 22, it's Christmas night. We have been married for 1 year and a half.
She is my dream girl. I didn't think I'd ever land, let alone marry a women like her. She's not perfect, but neither am I. She is was I want, I do not want her to leave me. I feel like i need her love. We have so much fun and laughs together, she's very hot, and so sweet when she wants to be. I love her very much
This is what happened-
She has a TON of past relationship baggage. It's been affecting us since the first day we met. Her exs have lied to her for her whole life, they have been losers, cheater and drug addicts (there have been 2 exs)
This causes massive trust issues with us. She has never trusted me. And never will i am beginning to see. Iv never cheated on her, the absolute worst thing I have done is smoke weed a couple times, and a few cigarettes. She is very against this kind of thing. And is 99% of the reason she doesn't trust me (crazy right ??) she tells her self I'm always out trying to get fucked up and smoke....I drink like twice a year, and only smoke when I do that. I rarely smoke weed.
She's going out of town for a couple days with family, so I made movie plans with my brother (she hates him cause he smokes and is kinda a "low life" but he's a great guy truthfully. Well she found out and went ape shit. And is now leaving me, saying this is the icing on the cake.....she says she doesn't get excited when I txt her anymore, I'm going nowhere in life, and I'm very mentally dumb. I am extremely hurt by all this
I'm a good guy, treat her well, love her with all my heart. And now she's leaving me because she can't trust me ever she says....
Now does this sound as crazy as I think ? Am I being a total pussy letter her control me like this ? She acts like the smallest things are the end of the world...I also have suspicion that she is bipolar. Some of her family would agree with this.
Sorry for the ramble, it's very hard to put this into a single post. I just need help from my brothers on here. I feel like this is a crazy nightmare. But it's real. I love my wife and would gladly die for her. And I'd still stay with her if she doesn't leave. But how can anyone live like this?
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