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The bold part. I love my wife and loved my first one, but there is nothing tighter than my pre-nups.Going to be a bit contrarian here.
A majority of this forum are most likely introverts, myself included. I have my tribe though, online interaction does not replicate in person connection and having a healthy social life. You need to focus on yourself a little bit and develop some hobbies and a healthy social life. It takes time, its' painful, and its' one of the greatest things on this planet.
You are 39 and not married. You need to settle down. Be bloody honest with yourself. Here is the question, if you had a daughter with her would you be happy if she turned out like this woman? I can without hesitation say I would be proud to have a daughter that turns out like my wife. Not having someone there as your rock, someone to help you grow and go through the chaos that is life by your side only makes things harder. Your a man now brother. Do manly shit. Find an awesome woman, get married, have fucking kids, travel the world, talk to everyone, eat everything.
Prenups are mandatory, no matter your financial level.
Of course shes giving you an ultimatum, 39 and you aren't trying to settle down and start a family? She has a biological clock brother. She wants a family. If you can't give it to her it isn't fair that you deprive her of it.
I don’t care how much anyone says they love you. Money and kids change people.
Any for anyone who has an issue signing a “fair” one… what does that say about you and what you’re looking for. just my .02.