would you risk bangin a judge's girlfriend?

[Designbuilt]

The asshole reference was in response to the original post saying the guy was cocky, arrogant, etc. You know, an asshole? I didn't mean it as in "only assholes ditch their cheating girlfriends".

If he's a real asshole (if he's really an asshole) then he's sure to ditch her. He's not going to be in love and work things out like lovers sometimes do.

Sorry to hear about your girlfriend. Damn. I try not to even get involved anymore. I've spent all my chips. I'm sitting it out for now and catching the view from the bleachers.

I get what you're saying... Well in my ex's case, there were way too many lies I caught her in, I was emotionally involved, but enough was enough already... I did care for her though, so three weeks after our break up, once things calmed down... I called her and asked if she learned her lesson... Suddenly her voice lit up and she said "yes, does that mean, you're giving me another chance?" I said "nope, I just wanted to ensure that you learned your lesson and don't fuck things up with the next guy like you did with me, take care of yourself" and that was that...

 

[BigChef]

actually not, I don't like whores... A girl who cheats on her partner is a whore to me, not a fan of those !

liar!!! Didnt a whore fetish your arse before? She disgusting! Raw your a man-whore

 

[prudhoe2006]

I get what you're saying... Well in my ex's case, there were way too many lies I caught her in, I was emotionally involved, but enough was enough already... I did care for her though, so three weeks after our break up, once things calmed down... I called her and asked if she learned her lesson... Suddenly her voice lit up and she said "yes, does that mean, you're giving me another chance?" I said "nope, I just wanted to ensure that you learned your lesson and don't fuck things up with the next guy like you did with me, take care of yourself" and that was that...

Bro that's fucking cold I like it but cold sounds right along my lines of something I'd do

 

[OuchThatHurts]

I don't believe I have ever disagreed with one of your posts. Even when they cast me in the bad light I deserve... ...It was nice not to feel guilty after reading one of your posts.

I literally gasped when I read this. I've always thought your stuff was insightful and downright astute! Anything negative coming your way from me, I assure you, was/is COMPLETELY accidental.

Oftentimes, I have my bad days. I'm short, blunt, foul language. I've gotten checked more than once for it believe me. When I was in my younger days (20-something) I used to try to make everyone happy and wound up pleasing no one. These days I try to give it straight and blunt. I'm more gentle on the kids but most adults know better and they NEED verbally bitch-slapped (not you, just in general). They come to me sobbing about the same mistakes they've been making for a decade, or two, or three. There is little in the way of CBT or medication that's going to help them.

Spare me a brief antecdote here, it may surprise you to know (or NOT!) that I used to see a mentor/therapist myself; my wise old man. When my business first started gaining some traction, I was always complaining about money. Not that I necessarily didn't have enough, just money period. I was telling him (complaining) how much it was going to cost to medically insure my brother and this kid and he listened, looked at me, and said, "Well, ain't that a bitch?"

He couldn't have said anything better, or sympathetic, or loving. He merely stated the obviousness of the truth: that it's a bitch. He may have been well to just open-hand slapped me in the face. You know, to this day I do not complain about finances. It worked so effectively. And wow, this PhD from Brooklyn had the foulest mouth! When he sold his business 10 years ago, he had over 30 Phd's, PsyD's, and MD's working FOR HIM. He was (is) a very incredible person with very meager roots.

 

[OuchThatHurts]

I get what you're saying... Well in my ex's case, there were way too many lies I caught her in, I was emotionally involved, but enough was enough already... I did care for her though, so three weeks after our break up, once things calmed down... I called her and asked if she learned her lesson... Suddenly her voice lit up and she said "yes, does that mean, you're giving me another chance?" I said "nope, I just wanted to ensure that you learned your lesson and don't fuck things up with the next guy like you did with me, take care of yourself" and that was that...

My god. You're waaay too much like me. not only did you just secure your own sanity but you thought ahead to the next guy. She'll hate you intensely, but in time, she WILL learn that lesson. With adults it just has to be drilled in hard (so to speak LOL).

 

[Designbuilt]

My god. You're waaay too much like me. not only did you just secure your own sanity but you thought ahead to the next guy. She'll hate you intensely, but in time, she WILL learn that lesson. With adults it just has to be drilled in hard (so to speak LOL).

Believe it or not, I wasn't trying to be a dick about it... I was genuinely concerned with her future... But I decided that under no circumstance would I forgive what she did and wanted to talk to her as a friend, but she got pissed and said "why did I even answer the phone?" Then later she started talking shit about me on posts she made on fetlife (a social network like facebook but for adults, where people post nudes and porn videos and pics, etc.)

I just ignored them, it's funny how she was completely to blame, I caught her red handed, have evidence in front of me; yet she continued to deny things and attacked my character and tried to blame me... So I decided that she's a bit of a lost cause and just mentally unstable, so I just let things go... Later when I thought about it, I guess it was funny and cruel, but originally those weren't my intentions...

 

[Performance Based]

You shouldn't fuck anyone's girlfriend, fiance, wife, committed partner no matter who their significant other is. WTF is wrong with people?:banghead:

Agreed, I'll do some fucked up shit. But messing with people's hearts. Not for me.

 

[thatbloke]

give her a good root

if shes willing to cheat, then root her, shes nothing but a cheating whore anyways

who cares if she has boyfriend, if shes willing to cheat then its either you or someone else

there relationships going to come to an end one day anyways, since shes like this

just wateva you do, dont date her, clearly not girlfriend material

root and give her the boot

have fun

 

[brutus69]

ok, i'm gonna pass on her. we were at the gym, me, and her boytfriend and her, and it just wasnt there. i had no desire! wtf? he was talkin to me, she was talkin to me, as usual bitchin about him behind his back. actually, i almost, kinda, feel sorry for her and plus, she didnt look all that hot. and since i'm a shallow prick, that was all it took.
plus there was 2 hotter women there, one which i'm about to rub one out to, so.....see ya!