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I've been dating a woman for about 10 months and things are going pretty good. We love about 45 minutes apart and see each other once or twice a week, usually the whole weekend. Seems good, not quite enough for her a lot of times tho[emoji17]
I try to always trust people until I have reason not to. She hasn't given me reason yet but I tend to "think" sometimes. The issue is she likes to go out, drink and have a good time ... No biggie. The problem is she doesn't know that stopping point and basically blacks out not remembering the night. It bothers me not only that she drives in this state but can't help but think what else happens or has happened?! Like she has told me that her and her gfs have never gone home with a guy from a bar. But I'm thinking...how would she remember?! Scenario...she gets drunk, hooks up and goes to her house..dude leaves, she wakes up next day with a hangover .., no problem!
I know I may be overthinking things but, we were at a wedding last Saturday where she drank too much, don't remember the ride home much or sex at all. Which made me start thinking...wonder how often THAT has happened?
So...should I just leave it I'm my head or confront her about it? I'm not sure bringing up the past events is the best thing to do? Thanks for any advice or opinions...
I try to always trust people until I have reason not to. She hasn't given me reason yet but I tend to "think" sometimes. The issue is she likes to go out, drink and have a good time ... No biggie. The problem is she doesn't know that stopping point and basically blacks out not remembering the night. It bothers me not only that she drives in this state but can't help but think what else happens or has happened?! Like she has told me that her and her gfs have never gone home with a guy from a bar. But I'm thinking...how would she remember?! Scenario...she gets drunk, hooks up and goes to her house..dude leaves, she wakes up next day with a hangover .., no problem!
I know I may be overthinking things but, we were at a wedding last Saturday where she drank too much, don't remember the ride home much or sex at all. Which made me start thinking...wonder how often THAT has happened?
So...should I just leave it I'm my head or confront her about it? I'm not sure bringing up the past events is the best thing to do? Thanks for any advice or opinions...