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[lilkoreangirl]

I apologize for what I am about to do/say/admit to:

I cracked ANNIE78's email password and found out about 2 hours ago that she and LUCIAN are having an affair behind my back. I'm a bitch for cracking the emails. I'm a bitch for putting it on PM. But I had to. He and I have been together for going on 3 years. We've had some MAJOR down times, but NEVER did I stray. He did and now it's over. May I just say to anyone who's thinking about cheating: Don't. Just end it.

Thanks for reading.

LKG

 

[hiddenbelow]

hmmmmmmmmmmm............

DW

 

[K1]

Damn LKG, really sorry to hear that!!! I've always believed that if you want to sleep around then stay single...if you want to be in a relationship, then stay commited and be faithful!!! Hope everything turns out well for you girl!!

 

[goonstopher]

Hell hath no furry...

Sorry to hear that. This is why relationships are so hard and I think you have a right to let people know the quality of someones charecter so don't feel bad for putting it in the open.

 

[thebrick]

Obviously you had suspicions... sorry to hear that happened to you. You have a right to be pissed on the way it was handled, no doubt

 

[oldfella]

Shit!! LKG I am sorry for what you are going through. This is painful, I know. Just know this......you're family here at Pro Muscle and we look after our family. You do not know me but if there is anything I can do for you even just to vent....please feel free to PM me anytime. You are a solid sis here and I hate to hear things like this happening to people I know. Like I said girl......Anytime!!

 

[Shelby]

Very sorry to hear this
Try to keep your head up - you're a very strong and good-hearted person and will make it through this to see better days.

 

[PHIL HERNON]

DAMN

I apologize for what I am about to do/say/admit to:

I cracked ANNIE78's email password and found out about 2 hours ago that she and LUCIAN are having an affair behind my back. I'm a bitch for cracking the emails. I'm a bitch for putting it on PM. But I had to. He and I have been together for going on 3 years. We've had some MAJOR down times, but NEVER did I stray. He did and now it's over. May I just say to anyone who's thinking about cheating: Don't. Just end it.

Thanks for reading.

LKG

I AM SO SORRY. I LIKE YOU BOTH.

 

[Steak Helmet]

very sad news to hear

It is always better to just break it off before cheating.

 

[speedbacker]

Damn.

 

[TooPowerful4u]

I sincerely feel for you, as i know how you must feel right now. I have also been through it. Not only have i been through it, but iv had SIX so called "friends" hook up with girls i was dating (not gf but seeing). You have to realize that you will find someone who deserves you and you will be happy again. I KNOW... words cant help right now... but time heals as much as it sux to hear... its true (believe me its the last thing i always wanted to hear, but it was always true)

I have NEVER cheated or even thought about it ever in my entire life. Once a cheater always a cheater.... and a lot of people are cheaters.... its called being weak. There are acceptions... like if the relationship is really rough and is on its way out.... but if its good and somebody cheats.. they are just WEAK plain and simple... weak minded weak willed and are just not good people...putting their lust ahead of somebody they love.

Take care, be strong... and realize you are better off without somebody who would cheat on you and hurt you like that... you deserve better... somebody who will love and cherish you.

 

[sickboy]

You're better off if he was doing that to you. Good luck in moving on.

 

[lilkoreangirl]

Thank you

Thank you for all of your kind and inspirational words. I really appreciate them. I still can't believe this is all happening. It's surreal. To think the man I love. My world. My be all end all just spit in my face and has been for 9 MONTHS! Only time will tell what life has to offer me. Does anyone believe in second chances? OR am I just talking crazy talk because I'm hurt and pathetic right now???? Please advise. Thanks in advance for your help and support.

LKG

 

[Dusty Hanshaw]

Thank you for all of your kind and inspirational words. I really appreciate them. I still can't believe this is all happening. It's surreal. To think the man I love. My world. My be all end all just spit in my face and has been for 9 MONTHS! Only time will tell what life has to offer me. Does anyone believe in second chances? OR am I just talking crazy talk because I'm hurt and pathetic right now???? Please advise. Thanks in advance for your help and support.

LKG

Second chances? I know I might be nuts but I do believe in second chances. The one thing that I will say from experience is that trust is a must in a relationship. I would go as far as to say trust can be the foundation of a relationship. So the question is are you both willing to deal with the lack of trust that will exist in your relationship? Will he be okay with the fact that you will want to know what he is doing and who he is with ALL THE TIME. Will he give you anytime access to his phone, messages,computer, email, etc..

I believe that we are all human and though he made a big mistake I think some people forget that mistakes are made and sometimes people get lost in the moment. One lie leads to another and it can just snow ball. I'm in no way saying that cheating is okay or that you should go back but if there is love and he is willing to work and work hard anything is possible.JMO Good luck and I wish you the best in your difficult time.

Dusty

 

[rmtt]

Second chances depend on what your gut tells you. For me it's a deal breaker. I am so sorry for what you are going through. Been through it myself after 12 years of marriage...and there are no words for it.

But I promise you that you will have better later. I look back at my life and can't believe what I was missing while with her. But I didn't stray.

My thoughts are with you.

 

[Golgo13]

Could you forgive him? Assuming he is sorry.

I personally think cheating should be forgiven (provided its not like someone has a secret family somewhere), otherwise it will always be something someone is guaranteed to hide if it happens.

 

[K1]

Thank you for all of your kind and inspirational words. I really appreciate them. I still can't believe this is all happening. It's surreal. To think the man I love. My world. My be all end all just spit in my face and has been for 9 MONTHS! Only time will tell what life has to offer me. Does anyone believe in second chances? OR am I just talking crazy talk because I'm hurt and pathetic right now???? Please advise. Thanks in advance for your help and support.

LKG

Second chances...NO...if it happened once it is only a matter of time before it happens again!! Also, once that second chance comes around, then they know that they own you and your dignity!!! Trust is not given it's earned and once it's lost it can never come back!! Learn from this and move on, you are a very beautiful woman with a good head on your shoulders...love AND loyalty will not be a hard thing for you to find!! I guarantee it!!

 

[thebrick]

IMO... second chances? No. Especially because you had to uncover this because of your suspicions. Its not like anyone came forward out of respect for you. For me, once the trust and respect is gone, so are they. I have better things to do than to be constantly checking my back in a relationship.

 

[littleguy]

 

[JustWannaBeHuge]

I have to butt in here. I'm not going to say give second chance or not, but I will say this.

a 1 night stand is cheating...

a nine month affair..well... damn thats a long fucking time.

The end decision is your's to make, but I would advise you to weigh everything very carefully. I have been there, and I have hurt very badly, but to be constantly worried if someone is cheating again... do you want to live like that?

Make the best decision for you sweetie.

Good luck.
Rob