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I've been dating this girl on and off for about 2 months. We've had sex a few time and I used a condom each time. She asked me the other day if she should go on BC. I said sure, why not. Then she asked if I'd go get a STD test. I was a bit taken back as we weren't really "serious" and I hadn't thought of just dating her.
As I was thinking this over, she saw my hesitation and she asked the dreaded question: So how many sexual partners have you had?
I know some guys keep an accurate count, some know a ball park figure and others stop keeping count. I'm an engineer by trade, so I keep count of everything. So I turned the question around and asked her, what do you mean by sexual partner?
I was slightly stunned by her answer. She said anyone you have done anything with down below, including just fingers. I should mention that this girl is bi. So in her world, if someone, a guy or girl touches her pussy, she counts it. I told her that straight men (maybe gay too, I don't know), usually only notch the bedpost if they have full intercourse. So I told her I have no idea based on her definition, which is true. She thinks I'm side tracking her and got mad.
So I'm curious am I alone in thinking that a "sexual partner" for straight guys is only intercourse (yes, anal counts)? Or do you guys count oral and finger banging as well?
As I was thinking this over, she saw my hesitation and she asked the dreaded question: So how many sexual partners have you had?
I know some guys keep an accurate count, some know a ball park figure and others stop keeping count. I'm an engineer by trade, so I keep count of everything. So I turned the question around and asked her, what do you mean by sexual partner?
I was slightly stunned by her answer. She said anyone you have done anything with down below, including just fingers. I should mention that this girl is bi. So in her world, if someone, a guy or girl touches her pussy, she counts it. I told her that straight men (maybe gay too, I don't know), usually only notch the bedpost if they have full intercourse. So I told her I have no idea based on her definition, which is true. She thinks I'm side tracking her and got mad.
So I'm curious am I alone in thinking that a "sexual partner" for straight guys is only intercourse (yes, anal counts)? Or do you guys count oral and finger banging as well?