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I broke up with my girlfriend sadly, one of main things money issues, she wanted to get married and I wasnt ready. Been a month or so ago. In past month been with two girls, that I met off dating websites.
These girls on dating sites seem to me to be after quick hookups , rebounds, and quick excitement and lie on their profiles saying they want sweet caring guys who want a best friend and want relationships and not one night stands.
Which makes sense because if they said they just want a guy that is good with women, to have sex with, that wouldn't be acceptable in society.
First girl (one time sex)used me then didnt respond to my texts after a week of seeing her, the first week she was so into me
Second girl (three times sex)after ten days she stopped responding and said she found someone. makes me think I was a rebound . I was emotionally open with them as well, obviously i didnt say I love you or anything after knowing them so little
I feel so used and like a piece of meat and yes sad about it bc if you get hurt it means you loved, and tried, even if they were short term
anyone else find this and how to be optimistic about it all?
comments, help, stories, questions
These girls on dating sites seem to me to be after quick hookups , rebounds, and quick excitement and lie on their profiles saying they want sweet caring guys who want a best friend and want relationships and not one night stands.
Which makes sense because if they said they just want a guy that is good with women, to have sex with, that wouldn't be acceptable in society.
First girl (one time sex)used me then didnt respond to my texts after a week of seeing her, the first week she was so into me
Second girl (three times sex)after ten days she stopped responding and said she found someone. makes me think I was a rebound . I was emotionally open with them as well, obviously i didnt say I love you or anything after knowing them so little
I feel so used and like a piece of meat and yes sad about it bc if you get hurt it means you loved, and tried, even if they were short term
anyone else find this and how to be optimistic about it all?
comments, help, stories, questions
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