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Ok guys, most girls that I have met or dated they are usually really easy to sleep with, fuck, screw bang or whatever. I have yet to cross a female who doesn't take long to sleep with, sometimes a few days, sometimes just one day, maybe a week and at times a one night stand :naughty:
I've been knowing this girl for quite sometime, more than a year but recently started "dating/talking" for the past 5 months or so. Just a few days ago, she finally decided to come inside of my house. Now keep in mind that I have invited her quite a few times over for dinner, talk, hangout but she has kindly declined it. She told me that she wasn't that type of girl to just go visit a guy let along go inside their house/apt. It has taken me quite a bit of time to gain her trust; its slowly working and I have nothing but total respect for her. She came over for lunch and I cooked for her. Quite a few times she has come to visit me but she stays inside of her car and doesn't come out, lol. Now this girl has an amazing body, workouts on a daily basis, has 3 jobs, is fully independent, has her own place, etc. I mean this girl is the TOTAL package! I give her a 100 instead of a 10 on my scale.
She was married the same man for a period of 14 yrs, has one son. She's divorced and for what I am seeing she is an excellent mother to her son. She doesn't allow me to meet her son, because she tells me that she doesn't want her son to get the wrong idea about her mother. She says that she wants a man to be fully committed to her and that she wants to be in love. She doesn't believe in temporary relationships, she often makes comments about her co-workers and how they are, how quickly they give it up to a guy, how many guys they usually date, how many relationships they have, and how they lack the respect for themselves. Now many years ago I promised myself never to date a woman with a child, or date a woman who was married before. I've always been the kind of guy who has dated girls without any commitments, but honestly time has changed because after all I am getting older. Now I look at life differently and with a different set of views. I wanted to be single "ALL" of my life, never had kids, never be married, and just do me. But after reaching success in my career, financial success, having all the toys a man could want, travel, live life, have my dream home I have to admit that life has gotten to be somewhat lonely to a certain degree. I find myself not sharing my success and accomplishment with someone who isn't worth a dime.
Plain and simply, most girls want me because of my status and not for what I have to offer from the inside. Now this girl is totally different, she isn't impressed with what I drive, where I live, what kind of position I have, how much money I make, etc. She once told me that I have it all, the total package but that one thing that I am lacking is true love... Wow, impressive statement! We've been seeing each other quite often lately, kissing holding hands, spending time, etc but I have yet to dive in and now I am finding myself wanting her even more, to the point that it's driving me fucking CRAAAZY What is it with a woman who doesn't just give up so quickly that drives up absolutely insane???
But anyway, it’s not about just me sleeping with her but it’s about the whole package. I want to truly settle down, start my life with someone and just live a normal life. So based on the above, what do you guys think? Should I stay in and see what happens or maybe should I decide to just keep my options open?
I think we are both falling for each other but only time will tell....
I've been knowing this girl for quite sometime, more than a year but recently started "dating/talking" for the past 5 months or so. Just a few days ago, she finally decided to come inside of my house. Now keep in mind that I have invited her quite a few times over for dinner, talk, hangout but she has kindly declined it. She told me that she wasn't that type of girl to just go visit a guy let along go inside their house/apt. It has taken me quite a bit of time to gain her trust; its slowly working and I have nothing but total respect for her. She came over for lunch and I cooked for her. Quite a few times she has come to visit me but she stays inside of her car and doesn't come out, lol. Now this girl has an amazing body, workouts on a daily basis, has 3 jobs, is fully independent, has her own place, etc. I mean this girl is the TOTAL package! I give her a 100 instead of a 10 on my scale.
She was married the same man for a period of 14 yrs, has one son. She's divorced and for what I am seeing she is an excellent mother to her son. She doesn't allow me to meet her son, because she tells me that she doesn't want her son to get the wrong idea about her mother. She says that she wants a man to be fully committed to her and that she wants to be in love. She doesn't believe in temporary relationships, she often makes comments about her co-workers and how they are, how quickly they give it up to a guy, how many guys they usually date, how many relationships they have, and how they lack the respect for themselves. Now many years ago I promised myself never to date a woman with a child, or date a woman who was married before. I've always been the kind of guy who has dated girls without any commitments, but honestly time has changed because after all I am getting older. Now I look at life differently and with a different set of views. I wanted to be single "ALL" of my life, never had kids, never be married, and just do me. But after reaching success in my career, financial success, having all the toys a man could want, travel, live life, have my dream home I have to admit that life has gotten to be somewhat lonely to a certain degree. I find myself not sharing my success and accomplishment with someone who isn't worth a dime.
Plain and simply, most girls want me because of my status and not for what I have to offer from the inside. Now this girl is totally different, she isn't impressed with what I drive, where I live, what kind of position I have, how much money I make, etc. She once told me that I have it all, the total package but that one thing that I am lacking is true love... Wow, impressive statement! We've been seeing each other quite often lately, kissing holding hands, spending time, etc but I have yet to dive in and now I am finding myself wanting her even more, to the point that it's driving me fucking CRAAAZY What is it with a woman who doesn't just give up so quickly that drives up absolutely insane???
But anyway, it’s not about just me sleeping with her but it’s about the whole package. I want to truly settle down, start my life with someone and just live a normal life. So based on the above, what do you guys think? Should I stay in and see what happens or maybe should I decide to just keep my options open?
I think we are both falling for each other but only time will tell....