i want to encourage her to do it, but the competition is at the end of October. It will be my first competition and of course hers also. I am just telling her to go for it and see where she end's up. She has other problems that are questions in my mind for her like recovering from anorexia that she has been struggling with since 16, she's 34 now. I think she can take her body to new levels if she puts her mind to it, oh also we have three kids 12,8 and 2 that are home for the summer. Thanks for all the replys everyone, keep em coming if there are any gals out there with similar problems. I would like to hear how thay have managed to work out and keep a good diet let alone competing.